Indian men think stalking women is normal

印度男人认为尾随妇女是正常的

The men clearly thought it was okay to stalk the woman, that it was acceptable. A number of boys, in fact, believe that.
Boys are not taught to respect a woman's consent or lack of it. So, you have the editor of a news magazine reportedly brushing aside a woman's objection to his sexual advances because he reads a 'yes' into her 'no'.

男人显然认为跟踪女人是可以的，是能被接受的。事实上，很多男孩都相信这一点。

男孩没有被教导要尊重女性的意愿或缺乏（尊重）。所以你可以听到这样的报道，某新闻杂志的编辑无视了女性对他性骚扰的反对，因为他把她的“不”解读成了“是”。

And you have a political stalwart like Mulayam Singh Yadav dismissing questions about a rape case with a nonchalant 'Boys will be boys'.
And also, you have Janata Dal-United leader Sharad Yadav saying in Parliament, 'Who among us has not followed girls?' in effect saying that stalking is a 'harmless' activity.
Sharad Yadav's remarks came during the debate on the anti-rape Bill in the Lok Sabha in 2013 following the brutal gang rape and subsequent death of a young woman in a private bus on December 16, 2012 in Delhi. He was challenging the provisions to make stalking a crime.

你也可以看到一个类似Mulayam Singh Yadav的政客以“男孩子终究是男孩子”的冷漠态度无视了一个强奸案问题。

你还可以听到Janata Dal-United的领导人Sharad Yadav在议会中说，“我们当中有谁没有追过女孩？实际上，跟踪是一种‘无害’的活动”。这个言论出现在2013年一场关于2012年年末发生的新德里公交轮奸死亡案的辩论中，他在挑战有关跟踪犯罪的规定。

Even before the Criminal Law (Amendment) Act, 2013, which followed the December 2012 gang rape and which strengthened laws related to sexual offences came into effect, the Indian Penal Code defined rape as sexual intercourse by a man with a woman without her consent or when consent was obtained through deception or threat.
The Justice Verma committee report, the recommendations of which formed the basis of the more stringent rape law, further defined the term 'consent' as an 'unequivocal voluntary agreement when the woman by words, gestures or any form of verbal or non-verbal communication, communicates willingness to participate in the specified sexual act'.

在2012新德里公交轮奸案后，2013年强化性侵法律的《刑法》(修正案)法案出台之前，印度刑法将强奸定义为男人不经过女性同意、或者通过欺骗威胁手段获得同意与之性交的行为。

Verma司法委员会报告，建议在形成更严格的强奸法的基础上，进一步定义术语“同意”为“明确的自愿协议,即女人用语言,手势或任何形式的语言或非语言交流,传达意愿参加指定的性行为”。

Where does consent feature for the boys and men who indulge in stalking, molestation, rape, acid attacks and so on? Clearly very low.

The vehicles have evolved, the mindset hasn't. And it won't, not until boys are reformed to understand, imbibe and espouse the importance of consent.

对于那些沉迷于跟踪、骚扰、强奸、讽刺攻击等的男孩和男人，他们的同意特征（标准）是什么?显然非常低。

车辆已经进化了，心态还没有，也不会改变，除非男孩们被改造去理解，接受和拥护“同意”的重要性。

（注：节选，文中还提到印度数个著名的强奸案及其处理，少年尾随恶作剧，上世纪和本世纪女性安全感的对比，以及印度电影对“尾随”文化潜移默化的支持）

译文来源：三泰虎  http://www.santaihu.com/43492.html

【评论】

by logical indian (View MyPage)
True. Indian men have no respect for women. I have also seen and recognized this

 

是的，印度男人不尊重女人。我也看到并认识到了这一点

by Truth Prevails (View MyPage)
Do not generalise it. It is just few black sheep

不要以偏概全。这只是少数害群之马。

by S M (View MyPage)
In Movies from 1970-1990s every hero worth his salt would stalk women singing songs to them. Right from Rajendra Kumar to dharmendra, rishi kapoor, govinda etc.
Step 1- Stalk woman
Step 2- walk behind her singing songs
Step 3- Tell your friends to molest her and then pretend to beat then back
Step 4- She falls in love With you
Step 5-Profit

在1970 - 1990年代的电影里，每一个值得称颂的英雄都会跟着唱着歌的女人。从Rajendra Kumar到Dharmendra，Rishi kapoor, Govinda等。（注：都是印度著名的电影演员）

步骤1-跟踪女人
步骤2-在她唱歌的时候跟在她身后。
步骤3-告诉你的朋友们去骚扰她，然后假装打他们
步骤4-她爱上你了
步骤5-成功

by piri (View MyPage)
And they made such movies only because of one reason - that the great majority of Indian commoners, especially north Indian ones, are stupxd beyond redemption and so would flock to see such movies !

他们之所以制作这样的电影，只是因为——绝大多数印度平民，尤其是印度北部的平民，都是蠢得不可救药的，所以会成群结队地去看这样的电影!