[–]xxdeadshotxx 7 points 18 hours ago
I support live in relationships but it will be a pain in the ass in terms of government documentation我支持同居关系,但政府文件中这是一件令人讨厌的事情。
[–]RowdyRambo 15 points 17 hours ago
I am 35 and not married. Its really just about you. People have a wide range of opinions about me from being impotent, gay to being creepy and unstable. Some are just plain jealous of my independence and ability to travel and be wherever i want, whenever i want. Not that its really an advantage but to a husband/wife who has to explain each weekend and account for every minute of their lives, this is heaven.
So you have to kind of make peace with norms of the society you are in. May not be perfect or justified. And it is always a struggle. Easier for me. Harder for women.我35岁了没结婚,这真的只是你自己的事情。人们对我有很多看法,从阳痿、同性恋到恐怖和不稳定。一些只是嫉妒我独立且能随时去我想去的地方。并不是说这是一个真正的优势,而对丈夫/妻子每周末都要解释,并解释他们生活的每一分钟,这就是天堂。
所以你必须与你所在的社会规范和平相处。可能不完美也不合理。这一直是一场斗争。对我来说更容易,女性更难。
[–]amarinder19 10 points 21 hours ago
Bro, Dont think so much about the India Society. Its rules were set up by Village seniors to ensure their status quo. Live the life the way you want. People would stop bothering about you. Once they see an un-married person more happier than married once, they will to understand.兄弟,别对印度社会想太多了。它的规则是由村落长辈建的,以确保他们的现状。过你想过的生活。人们将会停止为你烦恼。一旦他们看见一个不结婚的人比结婚的人更快罗,他们将会理解。
[–]pannagasamir 8 points 21 hours ago
Is not as much as a taboo for a man than a woman相比女人来说,对男人没有那么忌讳。
[–]nanogenesis 6 points 17 hours ago
As a child of parents with the same genetic defects, despite being from different backgrounds I refuse to reproduce. I will fight my parents to the death for marriage, even if I end up dead (which I probably will).作为一个有着同样遗传缺陷的父母的孩子,尽管我有不同的背景,我拒绝生孩子。我将会为婚姻与父母一战到死,即使我最终死去(我可能会这样做)。
[–]reddit_guy666 21 points 23 hours ago
'No Marriage' is taboo almost everywhere globally, if any person above 50 anywhere in the world is single then they are looked at as sad/lonely/pathetic. If they further say it is their choice to be single and have no kids/family they are looked at as a weirdo
Its a social thing if you look at it exstentially“不婚”几乎是全球禁忌,如果世上任何一个50岁以上的人单身,他们就会被视为伤感、孤独、可悲。如果他们进一步说单身、丁克或没家庭是他们的选择,他们就会被视为怪胎。
[–]Kohsmos 42 points 1 day ago
Having the freedom to choose pretty much anything, is a taboo in India. We are descending into the dark ages.有自由去选择是印度的禁忌。我们正步入黑暗时代。
[–]mannabhaiMaharashtra 5 points 23 hours ago
Actually if you look around there are a lot of unmarried people. But they don't get to spread their ideas to the next generation or they wanted to get married but didn't, thus becoming a cautionary tale.事实上如果你看看周围,有一大堆不婚的人,但他们不会将他们的想法带给下一代。或者他们想结婚但不能,因此成为了警世故事。