Do Indian girls masturbate?

印度女孩会自慰吗?

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Anonymous

I am a 23 year old, Indian girl. I need to go anonymous since both my parents are active on Quora, and they have followed me. I don’t want to become a dinner table discussion for them.

我是一个23岁的印度女孩。我得匿名回答，因为我的父母在Quora上都很活跃，他们也一直在关注我。我不想成为他们餐桌上的谈论话题。

Your question is very weird. But I would still answer this for you.

你的问题很奇怪。但我还是会回答这个问题。

Indian girls do everything that is normal. And masturbation, for me, is pretty much normal. It is as normal as breathing in oxygen, in order to survive. Adults have sexual desires. Sexual desires tend to be stored in us in the form of sexual stress. And sexual stress should be frequently released. And that, my friend, is called masturbation.

印度女孩做一切正常的事情。对我来说，自慰很正常。就像为了生存而呼吸氧气一样正常。成年人会有性欲。性欲望往往以性压力的形式储存在我们体内。性压力应该经常被释放。而这，我的朋友，这叫做自慰。

I don’t masturbate daily. But I need to masturbate at least once in a week

我不会每天自慰。但一周至少需要一次。

Sphria Choubey, Health Expert

Not all, maybe some do. The main reason very less Indian girl would do that coz she has that kind of conservative upbringing and in India families are larger who live in smaller space so usually they don't get enough privacy and people usually have habits to interfere in other's privacy, for eg: siblings poking their noses in each other's lives is considered normal here and most of the time, no one find it annoying if their siblings or parents are poking their noses and not giving them privacy. Also girls here are engaged in household chores, watching tv etc. so maybe most of the time they don't get privacy and time and their mind always remain diverted in other things and the way they were raised, most of the time they had master the art of suppressing their sexual desire and live like that. This is how most of the Indian girls though exceptions could be there.

不是所有的女孩都会这样做，也许有些会吧。很少有人这样做的主要原因是因为她们接受的保守教育，而且印度家庭大多居住在较小空间内，因此他们通常的得不到足够的隐私，人们通常习惯干涉别人的隐私，就比如：兄弟姐妹对彼此的生活指手画脚，大家都认为这是稀疏平常的事。除此之外，印度女孩还要忙家务、看电视等等，所以大部分时间她们没有隐私、时间，她们一直被其他东西缠身，没空想这种事，再者因为她们接受的教育方式，大部分时间内她们已经很精通如何压抑自己的性欲望。这就是大多数印度女孩的生活方式，尽管也有例外。

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Nisha

What a question…. It's like asking do indian cows give milk?

这个问题是什么鬼....就像在问印度奶牛产奶吗?

Are you a foreigner who is asking this question? What if we masturbate?

提出这个问题的人，你是外国人吗?我们自慰又咋地了？

Yes some of us masturbate. Everybody on this earth whether it's a girl or boy likes to masturbate. If we do not have sexual feelings we can't give birth to a child.

是的，我们中的一些人会自慰。这个世界上的每个人，不管是男孩还是女孩都喜欢自慰。如果我们对性没有感觉，我们就不能生孩子。

To masturbate we need to have sexual arousal, that's the primary requirement to initiate masturbation.

为了自慰，我们需要性唤起，这是开始自慰的首要条件。

Indian girls masturbate depending upon each individual.

印度女孩自不自慰取决于个人。

Ramya Chowdary, Indian

YES. Of course, it is very natural for a woman to masturbate. Indian girls are no exception.

是的。当然，女性自慰是很自然的。印度女孩也不例外。

I masturbate. Every friend of mine masturbates and I know that. We discuss it.

我自慰。我的每个朋友都自慰，我也知道。我们还会讨论这件事。

But, masturbation is still a taboo in most of Indian families. It is very embarrassing for many Indian girls to talk out about masturbating. If you ask a typical Indian girl, whether she masturbates or not, the immediate answer will be a big NO. The answer ‘NO’ is not the actual answer. She is so trained by her family, relatives that whenever she is asked anything related to sex, masturbation, periods, she will say a NO even without listening to the question completely.

但是，在大多数印度家庭，自慰仍然是个禁忌。对于许多印度女孩来说，谈论自慰是非常尴尬的事。如果你问一个典型的印度女孩，她是否自慰，直接的答案肯定是大大的不。但答案“不”并不是真正的答案。她被家人和亲戚训练过，每当她被问及任何与性、自慰和月经有关的问题时，她都要回答“不”，甚至完全不听。

Aman Sharma, studied at MCA

In India and everywhere-girls are just like guys. Yes, due to social inhibitions and fear of being labeled as "shameless" or "loose character" BS , they don't like to talk about their preferences or habits in India at least. But they are not different from the girls of any other part of the world.

在印度和其他地方，女孩和男人都一样。是的，由于社交障碍和害怕被贴上“无耻”或“放荡”的标签，她们不喜欢谈论自己在印度的喜好或习惯。但是她们和世界上其他地方的女孩并没有什么不同。

Akshat Solanki, Some nights were full of this thing.

Should there be any restriction on Indian girls not to masturbate?

Of course not.

Yeah, like others, even Indian girls masturbate.

It’s been mentioned in the Kamsutra that this act used to be followed by women since ancient time for pleasure.

I read once that a 5 year old girls was worried about her vagina and felt like masturbating.

Her mom noticed that but how could she tell her about masturbation?

In university hostels, you would find number of sex toys and other things.

Indian girls are no different but like any other girl in the world.

Like boys even they feel like masturbating and I think talking of liberalism would not make a point.

印度女孩就不能自慰吗?

当然不是。

是的，和其他人一样，印度女孩也会自慰。

神经中提到，自古以来，妇女们就以这种行为为乐。

有一次我读到一个5岁的女孩担心她的阴道，想自慰。

她妈妈发现了，但她怎么能告诉她自慰的事呢?

在大学宿舍里，你会发现很多性玩具和其他东西。

印度女孩和世界上其他女孩一样，没有什么不同。

像男孩一样，她们也想自慰，我认为谈论自由主义没有意义。

Anonymous

I cannot talk about Indian girls, as I got to know just one Indian girl, and married her, and living with her for the last 17–18 yrs, and we have a 0 sex life from the begng. So this seems like an ideal case to masturbate and relieve yourself, doesn’t it? No, honey, it doesn’t! My wife can go sexless for yrs, without showing even a little sign of dissatisfaction, and if she catches me ever doing masturbation, she would file a 498A on me. So I am very careful doing it, and only do it when she is slee or away. Also, I come from a family where the males & females were uber-conservative, and even talking to a female was a great crime. So I grew up believing that females hardly look for sex, and was made to understand that if I need to get a female ever, I must earn a hell lot. So I consider that sex is a weapon in the hands of females, and they use it to extract things rather than enjoying it. By now, you might have found my beliefs to be weird and ridiculous, but with my very limited exposure to love and life, this is what I believe in. Thanks!

我无法谈论印度女孩，因为我只认识一个印度女孩，并且娶了她，和她一起生活了17-18年，我们从一开始就没有性生活。所以这似乎是一个理想的自慰方式，不是吗?不，亲爱的，没有!我妻子可以一年不做爱，一点不满的迹象都没有。如果她发现我自慰，她会以498A法案起诉我。所以我很小心，只能在她睡着或不在的时候才这么做。而且，我来自一个男女都非常保守的家庭，连和女性说话都是一宗大罪。所以我从小相信女性都不期盼性、我也相信如果我得找个女人，我就完蛋了。所以我认为性是女性手中的武器，她们用它来榨取东西而不是享受。到现在为止，你可能已经发现我的想法非常奇怪荒谬，但根据我对爱和生活的有限了解，这就是我所相信的。谢谢!

Anonymous

I don't know if I'd call myself conservative. I do have high morals for myself. I am approaching mid twenties and have never felt like masturbating and didn't think much of it either. But after reading a book or two which mentioned it, I began to think that was abnormal and asked my female friends (who grew up in different backgrounds). None of them felt the need either and told me that was perfectly normal. Looking at the answers here surprises me.

我不知道我是否会说自己保守。我对自己有很高的道德标准。我快25岁了，从来没有自慰过，也没怎么想过。但读了一两本书后，我开始认为这是不正常的，我问了我的女性朋友(她们成长于不同的背景下)。她们中没有一个人觉得有这种需要，并告诉我这是完全正常的。看到这里的答案我觉得很惊讶。

Gauri Aggarwal, Computer Trainer/ Teacher/Coordinator

The Indian girls are not an exception to this…in our society, these things are not considered good if we talk about it openly..

印度女孩在这方面也不例外……在我们的社会里，如果我们公开谈论这些事情，并非好事……

We lack sex education…what do we teach about sex in our school or colleges…

我们缺乏性教育……我们的学校或大学教授了什么有关性的知识……

It doesn't matter if boys/males do/discuss certain things openly in the society…but if the same thing is done by girls, they are branded as shameless…they are considered bad girls …

男孩/男性若在社会上公开讨论某些事情并不重要，但如果女孩做了同样的事情，她们会被贴上无耻的标签，她们会被认为是坏女孩……

In general, girls are not supposed to discuss such things and even in our society, in our families, no one is supposed to do or discuss such things…

一般来说，女孩不应该讨论这些事情，甚至在印度社会，印度家庭中，没有人应该做或讨论这些事情……

Sex is very pleasurable and is enjoyed by all irrespective to age and cast…

性爱是非常愉快的事，不分年龄和角色都可以享受……

If you can't enjoy sex, then what will you do? Certainly masturbation is there and is practiced by all, boys admit it easily and openly….but if you ask a girl about the masturbation, she will never admit it, she will say no…

如果你不能享受性爱，你会怎么做?当然就自慰了，男孩可以轻易地承认、公开....但如果你问一个女孩关于自慰的事，她永远都不会承认，她会说没有……

But the fact is almost all the girls masturbate, they may or may not admit…the frequency if their masturbation may be different for all the girls…

但事实上，几乎所有的女孩都自慰，她们可能承认，也可能不会承认。

Aamen Talukdar, a secular Indian

Just like the majority of women around the world who have attained puberty and have normal sexual urges, Indian women too masturbate. Though I could not give you the statistics of it yet it would not be wrong to say that some do not.

就像世界上大多数女性已经进入青春期并有正常的性冲动一样，印度女性也会自慰。虽然我无法给出统计数据，但绝对错不了。

And as to how they do it....just as any other female does it. Simple.

至于她们如何自慰....就和其他女性一样。简单。

Chloe Shani Malveaux, former Barista at Starbucks

I am not sure why I was asked to answer, but I do have a response so here it goes.

我不知道为什么要我回答这个问题，但我有个答案，所以就说说吧。

If Indian girls masturbate it depends on what they were told. I have two Indian friends who were taught to NEVER touch their own genitalia with their own hands. And it wasn't presented in an anti-masturbation way, just it isn't proper to touch one's self even in a non-sexual way. If you don't have toilet paper in-between your hands and your genitalia, then you shouldn't be doing that. And from what I know, at least one girl I know followed the advice. But as for what she does currently I am not sure if she masturbates or not now that she is more informed about sexuality.

印度女孩会不会自慰，取决于她们被怎么教导的。我有两个印度朋友，她们被教导永远不要用手触摸自己的生殖器。它不是反自慰，只是如果非性爱情况下，触摸自己是不合适的。如果你的手和生殖器之间没有卫生纸，那你就不该这样做。据我所知，至少有一个我认识的女孩听从了这个建议。但我不确定她现在是否自慰，因为她现在对性更了解了。

So while I can imagine that there are Indian girls who masturbate, there are probably those who don't based on the instruction they were given, and if they follow or grow out of that instruction.

所以我可以想象有些印度女孩会自慰，但也有一些女孩如果接受或长大后不再接受这种指导，可能不会自慰。

Anonymous

I am 18 year old, Indian girl. And the reason I am going anonymous is that my parents are on Quora and I don’t want to make things uncomfortable for them.

我18岁，印度女孩。我之所以匿名是因为我父母也会上Quora，我不想让他们觉得不舒服。

Oh yes, most of them do! I can’t speak all of them, exceptions are always there. But most of the Indian girls masturbate. Sexual urge is a very natural thing as soon as we human beings attain puberty. It is as natural as breathing, irrespective of gender, religion, etc.

哦，是的，她们中的大多数都有过!我不能说所有人都会，总有例外。但大多数印度女孩都会自慰。一旦我们人类进入青春期，性冲动是很自然的事情。它和呼吸一样自然，与性别、宗教信仰等无关。

I started to masturbate when I was 14 years old and I came to know about this wonderful thing through porn videos and a little bit of  search. And just as I completed my first ever masturbation session, I was already addicted to it. And there was no going back. I have been regularly masturbating for the last 4 years even though I am in a relationship and have a very active sexual life.

我在14岁的时候就开始自慰了，我通过色情视频和一些搜索了解了这个奇妙的事情。就在我完成第一次自慰的时候，我已经上瘾了。没有回头路。在过去的4年里，我经常自慰，尽管我已经有了男朋友，并且性生活非常频繁。

Pragya Rathore, studies VLSI Design at San Jose State University (2020)

Indian girls poop.

Indian girls have sex.

Indian girls drink beer.

Indian girls masturbate.

印度女孩会大便。

印度女孩会做爱。

印度女孩会喝啤酒。

印度女孩也会自慰。

Oops, I answered more than what was demanded by the question and I hope it wasn’t scandalous enough.

哦，我的回答超出了问题的诉求，我希望这还不太丢脸。

**Waiting for my answer to be downvoted**

等着我的答案被否决。

Anonymous

Yes. I am married to a women who enjoy masturbation and I really like to play a part in it. So yes, masturbation is very much there in women. pleasuring oneself is not that obscure as you may think, particularly masturbation, pre-marriage sex, male to male expoiltory sex in early teen years, etc.

是的。我娶了一个喜欢自慰的女人，我真的很喜欢参与其中。是的，自慰在女性中很常见。自娱自乐并不像你想象的那么晦涩，特别是自慰，婚前性行为，青年男性对男性性行为等等。

I have been casual with at least two girl aside from my wife who told that masturbation is quite common and regular.

除了我妻子之外，我和至少两个女孩闲聊过，她们说自慰很常见、普通。

Vaughn Yanko, Creating unhelpful credentials since 2017

Like all human beings, yes. Indian girls who are of the age will masturbate like any other category of humans.

是的，就像所有人一样。印度同龄的女孩会像其他人类一样自慰。

I'll bet you didn't know that African girls and European girls masturbate, too.Female humans actually need to find sexual release no matter what their skin color and heritage are! Woah!

我敢打赌，你肯定不知道非洲女孩和欧洲女孩也自慰。不管肤色和传统，女性都需要性释放。

Girls of all races and ethnicities masturbate. It is a 100% natural and normal process for both sexes.

所有种族的女孩都自慰。对于两性来说，这是一个100%自然和正常的过程。