你会给印度女孩什么样的忠告

Thanuraj B, Living in Westeros, since 2013.

***Advice time***

Dear girls,

Firstly never misuse your rights, boys are also human beings and they too have their lives.
Facebook likes on your pictures don't determine anything. You are beautiful. Believe it.
Learn self defence, both emotionally and physically.
Yes, make up looks good. But your smile looks the best.
Every guy who smiles at you doesn't mean to flirt with you. It can be a simple way to get to know you and the begng of simple friendship.
Please don't watch ‘saas-bahu’. serials. They are a big NO NO!.

亲爱的女孩,

1。首先，永远不要滥用你的权利，男孩也是人，他们也有自己的生活。

2。Facebook上你的照片被点赞并不意味着什么。你很美。要相信这一点。

3。学会情感和身体上的自卫。

4。是的，化妆让你看起来很美。但你的微笑最美。

5。对你微笑的男人并不一定是在和你调情。这是一种了解你、开始单纯友谊的简单方式。

6。请不要看《saas-bahu》连续剧。千万不要，不!

7. Stop watching friends and start watching GOT, Breaking bad etc.

8.Try and talk to introverts. They might turn out to be better at conversations than the usual talkative bunch.

7。别再看《老友记》，看看《绝命毒师》等吧。

8。试着和内向的人交谈。他们可能会比一般健谈的人更擅长交谈。

9.If a guy likes pink color then please don’t call him girlish. Colors have nothing to do with gender.

10. Love yourself before you fall in love with someone else.

11.Don't worry about your complexon. And definitely don't go after Fair and Lovely.

12. Never forget our Indian culture and values.

9。如果一个男生喜欢粉色，那么请不要叫他娘炮。颜色与性别无关。

10。在爱上别人之前先好好爱自己。

11。不要担心你的肤色。绝对不要追求白皙和可爱。

12。永远不要忘记我们的印度文化和价值观。

13.Don’t admire these heroes

13。不要崇拜这些英雄

Admire these true heroes.

要崇拜就崇拜这些真正的英雄。

Finally, Indian women are the best.

最后，印度女性是最棒的。

Jyoti Dagar, B.Tech Electronics and Communication Engineering, Delhi Technological University

1.If you are from the middle-class orthodox family, you can’t be a good daughter and a girl who wants to live her life on her own conditions at the same time.

2.As soon as you reach the age 25, just shift to another country if you want to live your life in your own terms because your relatives see you as a 40 years old senior citizen who should get married as soon as possible.

3.Not every person who shows care for you is your well-wisher.

4.If an unknown number keeps on teasing you, just post an employment ad and mention their phone number as a contact source. BOOM.

5.You are allowed to Scream and Cry but not allowed to GIVE UP.

6.Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you imagined.

7.Not everyone deserves to know the real you. Let them criticize who they think you are.

8.If God shuts the door, quit banging on it. Whatever was behind it, wasn't meant for you. Consider the fact that maybe he closed that door because He knew you were worth so much more.

9.Be wise enough to walk away from the nonsense around you.

10.Accept Rejections. Either you are really good or you need to improve.

1。如果你来自中产阶级传统家庭，你就无法既是一个好女儿，同时又能追求自己的生活。

2。一旦你到了25岁，如果你想以自己的方式生活，那就去往别的国家吧，因为你的亲戚会把你看作一个40岁的老女人，必须尽快结婚。

3。不是每个关心你的人都祝福你。

4。如果一个不认识的号码一直挑逗你，那就发布一个招聘广告，把他们的电话号码作为联系方式。哇哈哈。

5。你可以大喊大叫，但不能放弃。

6。自信地朝着你的梦想前进。过你想要的生活。

7。不是每个人都值得了解真正的你。让他们批评他们想象的你吧。

8。如果上帝关上了门，就不要再敲了。不管背后是什么，都不是为你准备的。想想这个事实，也许他关上那扇门，是因为他知道你的价值要高得多。

9。要明智地躲开周围一切胡说八道。

10。接受拒绝。要么你真的很优秀，要么你需要提高。

Vishnupriya

Being an Indian girl, I have seen a lot of similar attitudes and thinking in most girls, which makes me think, "Oh dear, certain things need to be told!"

Modern dresses ain't a sin! But,

Dress to boast your confidence, not to make yourself look cool.

作为一个印度女孩，我在大多数女孩身上看到了很多类似的态度和想法，这让我想，“哦，亲爱的，有些事情需要告诉你!”

现代服装不是罪恶!但是,

穿衣服是为了炫耀你的自信，而不是为了让自己看起来很酷。

Beauty ain't just in the way you look, but is in the way you hold yourself. Confidence, strong self esteem and pride! Smile is the best jewellery to add.

美丽并不仅仅在于你的外表，而在于你对自己的把握。自信、自尊、自豪!微笑是最好的珠宝。

Being referred to as cute isn't a trophy of excellence! No one feels you are cute ? That's okay. You can still survive.

被称为“可爱”并不是优秀的奖杯!没人觉得你很可爱吗?没有也没关系。你一样能活下来。

Are you successful ? Or intelligent ? Or good looking ? Cool! Fair warning, rumours and gossips about you are already in the wind! And you are a girl ? Ah! Your character is at stake ! Learn to not pay attention!

你成功吗?聪明吗?漂亮吗?太酷了!给你一个警告，谣言和流言已经开始缠上你了!你是女孩吗?啊!你的清白岌岌可危!学会不去理会!

Be ambitious! That's what is real feminism!

要有志气!这才是真正的女权主义!

(Image : India's 8 Super Women scientists at ISRO! )

(图片:印度ISRO的8位超级女科学家!)

'A guy could drink. So, even I may drink!' -No problem! That still is a choice.

But,

'A guy could drink. So, even I should drink!' Oh girl! You have got a problem with your attitude.

Sports is no longer a luxury for girls. If you are really passionate, then go for it.Do remember me when you bag a gold for India!

“男人可以喝酒。”所以，我也可以喝酒!“-没有问题!这是一个选择。

但是,

“男人可以喝酒。”所以，我也应该喝酒!“哦,姑娘!你的态度有点问题。

运动不再是女孩们的奢侈品。如果你真的很有激情，那就去争取吧。当你为印度夺得金牌时，别忘了我

If you are financially independent and sound, get some time and money to spend on girl kids who are neglected from our society. They have got dreams too.

如果你经济独立，身体健康，花些时间和金钱在被社会忽视的女孩身上。她们也有梦想。