(3) Culture. There's little overlap between the two cultures to the naked eye. In fact, I'd argue the two are quite far apart. When I consulted with a friend whether I should take a girl out to an Indian restaurant, for instance, he fervently and immediately rejected the proposal, saying, "Are you crazy? Asian girls despise Indian food. Take her there if you want to leave a god-awful first impression and don't want a second date."

(4) Sneaky characters. As the other Anon noted, there is a wide conception in the Asian community that Indians are sneaky, take credit for work they didn't perform, and backstab others. My friend at a top law school very specifically mentioned that she'd never date an Indian because she and her dad have been backstabbed by Indians either at work or at school.

Of the above, I'd say (1) is most definitely the key determinant in the majority of cases. And while they may not be the most politically-correct justifications, there's a reason why we rarely spot Asian girls with Indian guys.

（3）文化。这两种文化几乎没有什么交集。事实上，我认为两者相距甚远。比如，当我和朋友商量是否应该带女孩去印度餐馆吃饭时，他立即热心地否决了我这个建议，说：“你疯了吗？亚洲女孩看不起印度食物。如果你想给她留下可怕的第一印象，又不想要第二次约会，那你就带她去吧。”

(4)狡猾的性格。正如Anon所指出的，在亚洲社区，人们普遍认为印度人很狡猾，工作中抢占别人的功劳，并且背后伤人。我在一所顶尖法学院的朋友特别提到，她从来没有和印度人约会过，因为她和她爸爸在工作和学校里都被印度人背后陷害过。

综上，我认为（1）在大多数情况下绝对是关键的决定性因素。虽然这些理由在政治上可能不是最正确的，但我们很少看到亚洲女孩和印度男孩在一起，总是有原因的。

Anonymous

Some don't like Indian (and similar looking) men. A good amount of Asian women, including myself and my friends, do feel that way actually despite whatever the other answers say here. I don't deny that there are some Asian women who like Indian men. But I do point out that many don't, especially those whose values more closely align with East Asian values.

Quite simply, just too big of a difference.

有些人不喜欢印度人（或长相类似的人）。很多亚洲妇女，包括我自己和我的朋友，实际上都是这么想的，不管其他答案怎么说。我不否认有一些亚洲女人喜欢印度男人。但我确实得说许多人并不喜欢，尤其是那些与东亚价值观更接近的人。

原因很简单，就是差距太大了。

1.Body odor: Many East Asians have a gene that stops the production of bacteria in the underarm, hence having no body odor. Sometimes Indian men don't wear deodorant and emit a strong body odor. Body odor indicates to us that someone isn't clean. Huge turnoff to many Asian women who like being clean.

2.Facial hair: The ideal man for many women in Asia has no facial hair. Many Indian men have stubble or full on beards. Turnoff.

3.Value in women: There is an unfortunate stereotype that Indian men look down on women as inferiors and that they are expected to be submissive. Combined with the above, big turnoff.

I am not saying all Asian women feel this way. But I am telling you that a good amount do. I don't want to sugar coat it and say they're the minority either. These are the biggest reasons they don't like Indian (and similar looking) men so if you're looking to impress, I'd suggest addressing those reasons.

1.体味：许多东亚人有一种基因，可以阻止腋下细菌的产生，因此不会有体味。有时印度男人不涂除臭剂，身上就会散发出强烈的体味。对我们来说，体味说明某人不干净。对许多喜欢干净的亚洲女人来说，这可是件大事。

2.胡须：很多亚洲女人心中理想的男人是没有胡须的。许多印度男人留胡茬或络腮胡。不行。

3.对女性的尊重：人们对印度男人有一种不幸的刻板印象，印度男人认为女人是低人一等的，女性应该顺从男性。以上几点综合看，绝对不行。

我也不是说所有的亚洲女性都会这么想。但是我要告诉你，持这种观点的人不在少数。我也不想硬掰说这样想的人很少。这些是她们不喜欢印度男人的最大原因，所以如果你想给人留个好印象，我建议你先把这些问题解决一下。

Amy Maddox, I guess I know

Well to the one who even searched for this question let me clear your poor geography that India is a part of Asia so stop differentiating India and Asia as two different please.

Getting back to the question (the wrong question) "Asian girls" don't like the TYPICAL "Indian guys".

I am a total Indian(ASIAN)girl (as in born and brought up in India) and even after being an Indian girl I don't really like those typical Indian men because:-

Reason 1-the typical ones think women are inferior.

Reason 2-they themselves don't like anyone except an Indian girl.

Reason 3-they have pot belly.

Reason 4-they are kinda werewolf type you know, hairy and have that stink.

好吧，对于那些为了这种问题搜索的人，我先来帮你们拯救一下你们可怜的地理知识吧，印度是亚洲的一部分，所以请不要再把印度和亚洲区分为两个不同的国家。

回到问题本身（问题是错的），“亚洲女孩”不喜欢典型的“印度男孩”。

我是一个百分百的印度女孩（在印度出生和长大），可就算我是印度女孩，我也不喜欢那些典型的印度男人，因为：

原因1-典型的印度男人认为女人是低人一等的。

原因2-他们自己除了印度女孩，其他都不喜欢。

原因3-他们有大肚腩。

原因4-他们有点像狼人，浑身毛茸茸的，而且体味很臭。

Anonymous

I'm East Asian (living in the US) and half the men I date are East Indian. I actually prefer the East Indian men over the European men (for some reason I don't really date US caucasian men) because the cultural differences is not as extreme as the East Asian-European coupling.

Of course, I'm selective; I go out with the really bright ones (this goes for all men I date, not just the East Indians) and ones with good hygiene. I've also found that I get along much better with the men who immigrated to the US no later than their mid-20's. If they came to the US in their 30's or within the past 5 years, they have not integrated enough into society.

Advise to Indian men: use deodorant. If you smell bad, women won't go out with you

我是东亚人（住在美国），和我约会的男人有一半是东印度人。实际上，我更喜欢东印度男人而不是欧洲男人（因为某些原因，我不和美国白人约会），因为文化差异并不像东亚和欧洲的结合那么极端。

当然，我也会挑人的；我只和真正聪明的男人约会（这个要求适用于我约会的所有男人，不只是东印度人）和那些有良好卫生习惯的男人。我也发现我和25岁前移民到美国的男人相处得更好。如果他们是在30多岁或过去5年内才来美国，他们融入社会的程度就不太够。

给印度男人的建议：使用除臭剂。如果你闻起来很臭，女人就不可能跟你出去约会。

Anonymous

No. In fact a lot of Asian girls I know prefer Indian guys, actually. Many of these girls also prefer white guys (to a lesser extent). I'm an Asian female and I'm dating an Indian guy.

They have a lot of the same bone structure as white males and our cultures are more alike so that is one less hurdle to jump over. We both value education a lot and academia. We both are large minorities in STEM fields. Naturally, we frequently gravitate towards each other.

There is, however, the perception that Indians can be "sneaky" (get into shady business deals, etc) that has somehow propagated in East Asian culture. I know my own mother warned me against dating Indian guys before I left for college for this reason. However, clearly this was not a big deal, because she has no problem with my current boyfriend.

不。事实上，我认识的很多亚洲女孩更喜欢印度男孩。这些女孩中的许多人也更喜欢白人（比较少一点）。我是一名亚洲女性，我正在和一个印度男人约会。

他们和白人男性有很多相同的骨骼结构，我们的文化也更相似，所以需要跨越的障碍越少。我们都非常重视教育和学业。我们俩都是科技领域的少数群体。当然，我们经常互相吸引。

然而，有一种看法认为，印度人很狡猾（会采取阴险的商业交易等），这种说法不知何故在东亚文化中传播开来。我的母亲告诫我不要在上大学之前和印度男人约会。但是，很明显，这不是什么大问题，因为她和我现在的男朋友相处得不错。

外文链接：https://www.quora.com/Do-East-Asian-girls-dislike-dating-Indian-Who-are-also-Asian-guys-If-so-why