初次约会就发生关系是件好事？印度网友怎么看

Why sex on first date is a good idea

为何初次约会就发生性行为是件好事

We’re often told the narrative that having sex on a first date could squander your chances of it turning into a serious relationship. But according to a new study, getting intimate at an early stage could actually help to jump-start a relationship between prospective partners.

我们经常听到这样的说法，第一次约会就发生性关系会断送继续发展的机会。但是根据一项新研究，早期阶段的亲密关系实际上有助于促进潜在伴侣之间的关系。

A team of psychologists from the Israeli-based Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya and the University of Rochester’s Department of Clinical and Social Sciences in Psychology conclude that sexual desire may play a major role in attracting potential partners to each other.

以色列赫兹利亚跨学科研究中心和罗切斯特大学临床与社会科学系的一组心理学家得出结论，性欲在吸引潜在伴侣方面可能起着重要作用。

But crucially, sexual desire also plays an important part in encouraging the formation of an attachment between people.

但至关重要的是，性欲在促进人与人之间形成依恋关系方面也发挥着重要作用。

“Sex may set the stage for deepening the emotional connection between strangers,” lead author Gurit Birnbaum, a social psychologist and associate professor of psychology at the IDC Herzliya, said.

该研究的主要作者、以色列赫兹利亚跨学科研究中心的社会心理学家、心理学副教授Gurit Birnbaum称：“性或能为加深陌生人之间的情感联系奠定基础”。

“This holds true for both men and women.” The study was of heterosexual relationships, and found men and women both trying to connect with partners when sexually aroused.

这对男人和女人都适用。这项研究是关于异性关系的，发现男性和女性在性唤起时都试图与伴侣确立关系。

Groups of men and women were put in four different interrelated studies where their behaviour towards each other was analysed. Scientists found that sexual desire triggers “emotional bonding” between people.

几组男性和女性被安排在四项不同的相关研究中，分析了他们对彼此的行为。科学家发现，性欲会激发人与人之间的“情感纽带”。

In the first study, 36 women and 22 men lip-synched to music with an attractive, opposite-sex study insider and then rated their desire for their partner. In the second study, 38 women and 42 men were asked to slow dance with an attractive, opposite-sex insider.

在第一项研究中有36名女性和22名男性研究对象，他们分别与一名有吸引力的异性对口型唱歌，然后评估他们对伴侣的性欲。在第二项研究中，38名女性和42名男性被安排与一位有吸引力的异性舞伴慢舞。

In both studies, scientists found a correlation between “synchronisation” and desire for the other person. Studies three and four tested behaviours of groups subliminally flashed an erotic, non-pornographic image, and those who weren’t. Those whose sexual systems were “activated” displayed more “caring” and “helpful” behaviours in tasks.

在这两项研究中，科学家都发现了“同步”和对另一个人的性欲之间的关联。第三组和四组实验测试了研究对象的行为进行了测试，有一些在潜意识里闪现出色情、非色情和非色情图片，有一些没有。那些性系统被“激活”的人在任务中表现出更多的“关心”和“帮助”行为。

According to the researchers, on a subconscious level it could be down to evolution - to ensure reproduction. “Throughout human history, parents’ bonding greatly increased the children’s survival chances,” one expert said.

研究人员表示，在潜意识里，这可以归结为进化——确保繁殖。“纵观人类历史，父母之间的亲密关系大大增加了孩子的出生几率。”一位专家说。

Prior research has shown that similar brain regions are activated when a person experiences either sexual desire or romantic love.

先前有研究表明，当一个人经历性欲或浪漫爱情时，类似的大脑区域会被激活。

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译文来源：三泰虎 http://www.santaihu.com/46871.html 译者：Jessica.Wu

外文：https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/home/science/why-sex-on-first-date-is-a-good-idea/articleshow/67519698.cms

Logical - 3 hours ago -Follow

This Is under-section science ?? In first date how much one will know about each other? what happens if the partner is HIV positive,or psychological rapist in good outlook....No doubt this M@_### fuc£

这文章也归在科学专栏下面？第一次约会，对对方的了解有多少?如果对方是HIV阳性,或衣冠禽兽，那后果不堪设想。

Logical - 3 hours ago -Follow

In name of fake research they write anything.

这研究真是的，什么都敢写。

Ashni - New Delhi - 2 hours ago -Follow

Please don't spoil the current generation!!

请不要毁了这一代人!!

Gautham - Hyderabad - 2 hours ago -Follow

Irresponsible article.

不负责任的文章。

vivek mahajan - 3 hours ago -Follow

Degradation of media

媒体堕落了

R - 2 hours ago -Follow

Whoever is writer, first try from your home & set a trend....best of luck...

让作者自己去尝试吧，祝好运。

Redskull - 1 hour ago -Follow

socially irresponsible article

对社会不负责任的文章

Sudarsan - 1 hour ago -Follow

Sex on first date is a good idea, and that is why we recommend arranged marriage.

第一次约会就上床确实是个好主意，所以我们推荐包办婚姻。

Nasir Khan - 2 hours ago -Follow

Such topics lead to adultary and would damage sociaty more effecting young girlls.

这样的话题会导致私通行为，对社会不利，更会影响年轻女孩。

Sudip - 2 hours ago -Follow

indian cultural ethos and values are being challenged by these findings done abroad

印度的文化精神和价值观正受到这些海外研究结果的挑战

A Joshi - 42 mins ago -Follow

what a rubbish article.

真是一篇垃圾文章。

Arifmdmsg - 1 hour ago -Follow

very rubbish idea...people will spoil their own dignity and respect for each other...if they indulge in sex on first date...

馊主意……如果第一次约会就纵情于性，对彼此都不尊重……

Mukesh - 2 hours ago -Follow

This news paper was funded by Indira Gandhi. All of its owners are Congress sycophants, so we can expect such news from it.. They try to corrupt young minds by lus t.

这份报纸是由英迪拉甘地资助的，报纸是国大党的马屁精，他们企图用欲望腐蚀年轻人的头脑。

Prem - 16 mins ago -Follow

You teaching Indians how to rape girls on first date? why not rename the title to fit the motive"How to Rape on First Date" by Time Online India.

这是在教印度人第一次约会就强奸女方吗?何不把标题重命名为“如何在第一次约会时强奸对方”。

Guru - India - 1 hour ago -Follow

Who is the wastrel who researches these things

研究这些东西的都是不务正业的人

Anil B - Gurgaon - 1 hour ago -Follow

A new way to corrupt society.

腐蚀社会的新方式。

Inder - 1 hour ago -Follow

sexual desires have resulted into population explosion and extinctions of other species.

性欲导致了人口激增，进而导致其它物种的灭绝。

Piyush - 2 hours ago -Follow

So if they do not like each other, they get seperated and find another date with new sex partner and so on untill they find one where chemistry match!!!!

What a fun to have sex with everytime new partner.

如果不喜欢对方，就分手，然后再和新性伴侣约会，直到他们找到一个匹配的对象!!!!每次都和新伴侣上床很有趣。

Mahesh Krishnamurthy - 16 mins ago -Follow

We’re Indians. We’re sensitive to touch and feel. Sex on first date is not good because you then get to use and be used. It goes no further in most cases.

我们印度人对触摸很敏感的，第一次约会就发生性行为是不好的。在大多数情况下，这种关系都不会走得更远。

Sukanya Puttane - 17 mins ago -Follow

I definitely don''t agree with this statement, we are Indians and all other countries are following us with regard to culture,custom, traditional institutions such as marriage

我绝对不同意这种说法。我们是印度人，其他国家在文化、习俗、传统制度(如婚姻)等方面都在效仿我们。

Ranjan Prakash - 43 mins ago -Follow

T01 is heavily influenced and deliberately wants to imbibe foreign ideas in the country in respect with man-woman relationship and spoil native culture.

《印度时报》深受国外影响，有意吸收国外的男女关系思想，破坏本土文化。

Goutam Hiranandani - 1 hour ago -Follow

Are the editors crazy to put this as news. On first date?? How foolish

小编们疯了吗，竟然把这当成新闻。在第一次约会就那啥? ?太蠢了。

Anonymous - 1 hour ago

It all depends in the circumstances and individuals. If on the first day your wife is in periods then ?

这因人而异，也完全取决于当天的情形。万一对方来例假呢?

Balbhadra Dhagat - Bhopal - 31 mins ago -Follow

If it were for sex, one wouldn’t marry just one person. One would just keep finding new partners. This results in break-ups.

如果是为了性，一个人不会只结一次婚。不断寻找新伴侣，只会导致分手。

Hari Krishnan - Jakarta - 45 mins ago

Is this the priority for India today? Being a responsible daily, you should have better topics to hit the top line news. Shame on you Times.