班加罗尔：丈夫失业后去从事性工作，妻子要求离婚

Bengaluru: Out-of-job hubby turns escort, wife seeks divorce

班加罗尔：丈夫失业后去从事性工作，妻子要求离婚

BENGALURU: A 24-year-old woman has sought divorce after her husband, who lost his job at a BPO in the impact of Covid-induced lockdown, became a commercial sex worker and kept his new profile under wraps.

班加罗尔：一名24岁的女子要求离婚，因为其丈夫在疫情封锁期间失业后，成为了一名商业性工作者，并且对此保密。

Despite intervention by the Vanitha Sahayavani (women’s helpline) of Bengaluru police through extensive counselling sessions, the couple couldn’t bridge their differences and are set to part ways by mutual consent.

尽管妇女求助热线为他们提供了多次咨询，但这对夫妇还是无法弥合他们的分歧，只好在双方同意的情况下离婚。

It was love at first sight for Bhavesh and Smriti (names changed), who met at the office canteen of their BPO in Bengaluru in mid-2017. After courting for two years, they married in 2019 and rented a house in Subramanyanagar.

2017年年中，Bhavesh和Smriti(化名)在班加罗尔的业务流程外包办公室食堂相识，一见钟情。经过两年的恋爱，他们于2019年结婚，并在Subramanyanagar租了一套房子。

Due to the crisis caused by Covid, 27-year-old Bhavesh lost his job and started looking for opportunities.

由于新冠病毒造成的危机，27岁的Bhavesh失业了，他开始找机会。

Man took up sex work after he lost job

失业后开始从事性工作

A few months later, his wife noticed something unusual as he was extremely engaged with his laptop and mobile phone, and started making untimely and unexplained visits to places about which he wouldn’t discuss in detail with her,” said BS Saraswathi, senior counsellor at Vanitha Sahayavani who counselled the couple in February.

今年2月为这对夫妇提供咨询的高级顾问BS Saraswathi说：“几个月后，他的妻子注意到一些不寻常的事情，因为丈夫过度沉迷于笔记本电脑和手机，莫名其妙地去一些的地方，而且不和她说。”

Laptop with secret folder

笔记本电脑里的加密文件

Growing extremely suspicious about his activities, in mid-November, Smirti took the help of her techie brother to crack open Bhavesh’s laptop only to find a folder with graphic photos.

Smriti对他的行为越来越怀疑，11月中旬，她在哥哥（计算机专业人士）的帮助下，打开了丈夫的笔记本电脑，发现了一个存照片的文件夹。

“She found a secret folder containing numerous nude photos of her husband and selfies of semi-naked women unknown to her. She discovered he was a male escort charging Rs 3,000 to Rs 5,000 per hour and had numerous clients in the city,” the counsellor said.

顾问说：“她发现了一个加密文件夹，里面有很多她丈夫的裸照和一些她不认识的半裸女性的自拍照。她发现丈夫是一名男伴，每小时收费3000到5000卢比，在城市里有很多客户。”

Smriti confronted her 27-year-old husband with photographs from the laptop, but he refused to admit it was him.

Smriti用电脑上的照片质问丈夫，但他不承认那就是他。

“During interaction in the presence of his wife, he admitted to becoming a commercial sex worker after he lost his job. He declared his love for his newfound secretive profession which was introduced to him by a close friend,” Saraswathi said.

Saraswathi说：“在妻子面前，他承认自己在失业后成为了一名性工作者。他对自己的新职业表示热爱，这份工作是一位密友介绍给他的。”

Bhavesh, at the same time, was not willing to let go of his wife of two years and promised to mend his ways by giving up being a gigolo. The woman was determined to end their relationship despite four sessions of counselling. The couple has filed a mutual-consent divorce petition in a city court, a source said.

与此同时，Bhavesh不愿放弃相处两年的妻子，并答应改正，不再做牛郎。尽管接受了四次咨询，这名女子还是决定结束他们的婚姻关系。据知情人士透露，这对夫妇已向市法院提交了经双方同意的离婚申请。

以下是印度时报读者的评论：译者：Jessica.Wu

Rama Shetty

He could have sold tea and pakodas :)

他本可以去卖茶和帕可拉的

Mohan Acharya

What a dream job ! LUCKY GUY ! WISH HIM ALL THE MERRY AND HAPESS !

多么理想的工作啊!

幸运的家伙!

祝他幸福快乐!

Ekdesi

Hope Bhavesh is using mask up and down. And also social distancing

希望Bhavesh做好了措施，还有保持社交距离

Ra Mon

I think many men will want to get the details from 'Bhavesh'!!

我想很多男人想从Bhavesh那了解更多的细节!!

Anti Fascist

when everyone is losing why and how only Ambani Adani TATA Mahindra and handful of gujjus became super rich ?

所有人都在遭受损失，为什么只有安巴尼、阿达尼、塔塔、马恒达和少数古吉拉特邦的人成为了超级富豪?

anup agarwal

Very sad and disturbing news...a man can go to any extreme to keep his family happy...he should have discussed all issues with wife

非常可悲…为了让家人幸福，一个男人什么极端的事都做得出来。遇到问题，他应该和妻子讨论的

Sat

this is Modi's Acche Din....

这就是莫迪所说的“好日子”

Bala

Frankly, the man could claim that he was doing it all for her sake. And in fact sue her for trying to snoop into his private matters- including hiring her brother to hack his lap-top (which by itself is criminal offence, breach of privacy,...)

坦白说，这个男人可以说他做这一切都是为了妻子。事实上，妻子窥探他了的隐私——包括叫她的哥哥黑了他的笔记本电脑(这本身就是刑事犯罪，侵犯隐私……)，他本可以起诉妻子的

Krishna

Dude how the heck did you get into this?? What's the procedure

兄弟，你是怎么入这行的??

Sureshi Bai

Who said Indians are prudes!! They are basically hypocrites and do it all on the sly since our society frowns upon open, civilized and healthy sexual expression and relationships!!!

谁说印度人一本正经的!

他们基本上是伪君子，都是偷偷摸摸的，我们的社会不喜欢公开、健康的性表达和性关系!!

Dc Test

This article didn't mention about wife's profession. Was she a housewife?

这篇文章没有提到妻子的职业。她是个家庭主妇吗?

Piyush Kumar

The girl is right in seeking divorce. What if the genders were swapped? Would a guy accept a "temporarily prostituted" wife back?

女方要求离婚是对的。如果换位思考呢?一个男人会接受一个“暂时卖淫”的妻子吗?

Amil Khurshid

What does one do, when he loses a job. There are no jobs and people do this out of compulsion.

失业了能怎么办？没有工作可做，干这行也是被迫的

Indian

MODI HAIN TOH MUMKIN HAIN. Youths without jobs under Modi Rule forced to do something that ruin their lives.........Amazing.

在莫迪统治下，没有工作的年轻人被迫从事这种工作，毁了他们的情.........不可思议

Ginger Guru

How to contact this Bhavesh

怎么联系这家伙

Nihal Singh

Good and bad times are part of life. Neither of those should should mean that one should compromise on morals and principles. Hope Bhavesh and Smriti sit down, talk and reconsider their decision, and work out a way to restructure their life together. After a decade or so of normal life, this episode can be both forgotten and forgiven.

生活有苦有乐，无论如何，一个人不该在道德和原则上妥协。希望双方坐下来，好好谈谈，重新考虑他们的决定，并想出一个方法来重组他们的生活。十年之后，这个插曲将被遗忘，也可以被原谅。

Balasubramanian Muthuraman

wonder who are his extensive clients !!

想知道他的客户都有谁！

Donald Moss

Rs 3000 to Rs 5000per HOUR??!! OMG !! Looks like there are plenty of wealthy frustrated women out there.

每小时3000到5000卢比?!

天啊 ! !

看来外面有很多有钱又寂寞的女人。

shishira tm

Dream job

理想工作