Can a Chinese man walk along with a Vietnamese girl on the street in Vietnam?

在越南，中国男人能和越南女孩在街上走吗

以下是quora读者的评论：

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I would say yes, as a American married to a Vietnamese living in Vietnam, I have yet to have any problems. I know Africans and Indians that are also married to Vietnamese women and they do not have any problems. There are many Chinese living in HCM City, however I do not know any personally; but it doesn’t seem like they have many problems here also. Vietnam has very strong laws regarding hate speech and as a consequence the nation is rated as the friendliest nation on the planet by several polls.

我要说，可以的。作为娶了越南人的美国人，我生活在越南，还没有遇到任何问题。

据我所知，非洲人和印度人也有娶越南女人，也没有遇到任何问题。

有很多中国人住在胡志明市，不过我在这里没有认识的中国人。

他们在这里也没有遇到多少问题。越南制定了禁止发表仇恨言论的严格法律，在几项民意调查中，越南被评为世界上最友好的国家。

Martin, studied at University of the West of Scotland

Sure, why not?

当然可以，为什么不可以呢？

Mike Eisler, Traveled throughout Southeast Asia

Yes. What can’t do is bring her into his hotel room.

可以的，就是不能把她带进酒店房间。

Louis Nguyen, studied at University of California, Los Angeles

You're making it sound like you're having a target on your back that says “shoot me because I'm Chinese.” Lol. Trust me. Nobody cares even if you're two are walking hand in hand. The VN are pretty tolerant when it comes to inter-ethnic dating if that's what you're getting at.

说得好像有人在追杀你，如果是中国人就开枪？

哈哈相信我。就算你俩手牵着手走在越南街上也没人在乎。

越南人对跨种族约会相当宽容，如果你想问的是婚姻的话。

Although I don't grow up in VN and am not well versed in today VN society, I can, however, assure you that Vietnamese, whether they're growing up in the States or in VN, are very tolerant within their Asian and Caucasian races. However, I'm not sure if the same can be said with dark skin folks. No. I don't mean to come across as racist, but VN is a homogeneous country and is also highly influenced by the East Asian way of defining beauty standards. Therefore, it would be a rare sight to see VN girls dating guys from India or Africa. It's probably not politically correct to say so.

虽然我不是在越南长大的，也不是很了解今天的越南社会，但是我可以向你保证，无论他们是在美国还是在越南长大，越南人对他们的亚裔和白种人都非常宽容。

然而，我不确定这是否也适用于深色皮肤的人。我不想让人觉得我是种族主义者，越南是一个同质国家，也受到东亚人审美标准的高度影响。

所以，越南女孩与来自印度或非洲的男孩约会是很少见的。这样说可能在政治上不正确。

However, this is VN where political correctness is virtually nonexstent that you're asking. I figure that I'd spill the beans for those who are curious as I've read several posts on Quora where the authors might have been under the wrong impression that the VN girls are readily accepting dark skin folks. Quite to the contrary, they're not.

然而，在越南，你问的政治正确性问题实际上是不存在的。我应该告诉那些好奇的人，我在Quora上读过一些帖子，作者可能有错误的印象，认为越南女孩很容易接受黑皮肤的人。恰恰相反，她们不接受。

Donal Kirk

Possibly if she agrees

如果她同意的话，或许可以

Anonymous

I wonder when will Quora has rating mechanism well enough to avoid spreading such no-value added questions like this. Although the answerer is quite patient and informative. The questions seems too general with a suspicious purpose.

我想知道Quora什么时候会有评级机制来避免这种无价值的问题。尽管回答的人很有耐心，也很有见地。这些问题似乎太笼统，目的可疑。

About this question. Can or cannot not relate to your “chinese” status but about how you behave. Walk along with other person’s wife : No. Walk with a girl looking for free sex with no intent on long term relationship: No. You come to another country, you will be welcome if you know you’re guest and honor the host.

关于这个问题。与你的中国身份无关，而是与你的行为有关。与别人的妻子一起散步？不可以

和一个想要自由恋爱，但没有想要长期关系的女孩散步：不。

你来到另一个国家，你是客人并且尊重主人，你会受到欢迎。

I would advise chinese people should not invest in Vietnam. Almost all Vienamese hold a skeptical look toward chinese. 

我建议中国人不要在越南投资。几乎所有的越南人都对中国人持怀疑态度。

Chu Ha Khanh, Sys Engineer at SVTech (2008-present)

Nỏmally. Since past, alot girls date with foreigners.

很多越南女孩和外国人约会啊。