Chennai: Woman helps stop her marriage 1 hr before schedule

金奈：女孩在结婚前一小时叫停了婚礼

CHENNAI: A 22-year-old woman stopped her marriage in Puzhal an hour before it was to be held following police intervention after a video she sent to her friends went viral on Saturday.

金奈：周六在普扎尔，一名22岁的女子将一段视频发给朋友，视频疯传后警方介入，在举行前1小时阻止了婚礼。

The woman, Janathulla Firdose, 22, of Puzhal was unhappy with her wedding that was fixed with her maternal uncle.

这名女子名叫Janathulla Firdose，今年22岁，来自普扎尔，她对自己和舅舅的婚姻感到不满。

Though she had tried to convince her family members against the marriage, they refused to accept her reasoning and forced her to accept the proposal.

尽管她试图说服家人反对这桩婚姻，但他们不接受她的理由，并强迫她接受这庄婚事。

Police said Firdose sent a Whatsapp video in which she narrated her ordeal. In the video, she said that she was unhappy with the wedding as the groom was in contact with several other women and that her life would be ruined if the marriage took place. She also threatened that if the wedding took place as scheduled, she would end her life.

警方表示，Firdose发送了一段Whatsapp视频，在视频中她讲述了自己的遭遇。在视频中，她说她对婚礼很不满意，因为新郎和其他几个女人有关系，如果这场婚姻进行下去，她的生活将被毁。她还威胁说，如果婚礼如期举行，她将结束自己的生命。

She forwarded the video to her friends asking them to forward it to the police. She subsequently lodged a complaint at Puzhal All Women police station against her parents and the groom’s side.

她把视频转发给她的朋友，让他们转发给警方。随后，她向普扎尔女子警察局控诉了她的父母和新郎一方。

A police team that reached her house convinced her parents and stopped her wedding. This created panic among the relatives as the marriage was stopped just an hour before it was supposed to be held.

一队警察赶到她家，说服了她的父母，叫停了她的婚礼。这在亲属中引起了恐慌，因为婚礼在原定举行的一个小时前被叫停。

Puzhal police advised the bride’s parents not to force her to agree for the marriage anymore. They took her to the police station and extracted a written statement from her.

普扎尔警方建议新娘的父母不要再强迫她同意这桩婚事。他们把她带到警察局，做了一份书面陈述。

A police team from Puzhal All Women police station asked her to contact them in case she faced any problems again. Cops also advised her not to resort to extreme steps based on any situation she faced in life.

普扎尔女子警察局的一个警察小组让她在再次遇到问题时联系他们。警察还建议她不要因为生活中遇到的任何情况做出极端行为。

以下是印度时报读者的评论：译者：Jessica.Wu

Himmat Patil

I congratulate this woman for the courage shown by her in going against her family. Hope she becomes a role model for the women in this country..

佩服这位女子在与她的家人对抗时所表现出的勇气。希望她能成为印度女性的榜样。

Satyanarayana

Appreciate the woman. Under that circumstances shared her feelings with friends. Nothing wrong. But parents must stop when daughter says not interested.

欣赏这位女人。在这种情况下，她和朋友们分享了她的感受，这没有什么错的。当女儿不愿意时，父母应当叫停婚礼。

Kalpa Raja

Hats off to the girl I bow my head to you

向这个女孩致敬

Prahlad Natchu

Kudos to the Puzal police for giving support to the girl ,

感谢警方对那女孩的支持

K Sri Harsha

Its better face the problem and solve it instead of being afraid and not making a move , i think she made a nice move

遇到问题，要勇敢面对并解决它，不要因为害怕而不采取行动，我认为她处理得很好

CAMEX ENTERPRISES

Courage woman guided with well supported friends and the police team. Sometimes parents don't ask the children permission.

这位勇敢的女子得到了朋友和警察的大力支持。有时候父母不征求孩子的同意。

The Asshole

tomorrow s news - 22 year old woman killed by uncle for refusing marriage.

明天的新闻——22岁女子因拒绝结婚被舅舅杀害。

Shalini Psychologist apa

As a psychologist I would appreciate her boldness and came forward to take action against her family .

All the best for your career ....achieve your dreams my dear sister !

作为一名心理学家，我欣赏她的勇气，站出来对抗她的家人并采取行动。

祝你事业有成....实现你的梦想，亲爱的姐妹

Barakath Nisha

Well done.I really appreciate her will power and get friends.

她做得很好。我真的很佩服她的意志力，也欣赏她的朋友。

AHMED BASHEER

There was a time, when children were safe with parents, but now parents are making money with their children

曾经，孩子和父母在一起很安全，但现在父母拿孩子赚钱

Bush george

Does the story say anywhere that parents are making money?

这篇报道有没有说父母拿孩子赚钱?

Rajagopalan Vr

Congratulations to Police for their timely intervention.

感谢警方及时介入。

Ashok Dgk

Hats off to police!!!

向警方致敬！

T MUGUNTHAN CHARI

later may have issues like honor or horror killing etc. So things have not ended in her case. It has just began

之后可能会有荣誉或恐怖杀戮等问题。所以她的案子还没有结束。这才刚刚开始

Naveen

She could have simply dialed 100 or better still lodged a complaint online. No need for this drama.

Anyways things that end well are always good.

她可以直接报警或在网上报案。没必要这么小题大做。

不管怎样，结局是好的。

Mahesh Mahesh

Unfortunately the police would not act on a telephonic complaint . Only because the video went viral and complaint from various people made the police act. Further she managed to garner support which was very important. Very thoughtful of her.

不幸的是，印度警方接到电话投诉后不会采取行动。是因为视频在网上疯传，以及来自各种人的评论，才使警方采取了行动。她设法获得了非常重要的支持。她真的很有想法。

SB

The women's protection cell are supposed to work on exactly these complaints.

女性保护小组的职责就是处理这些投诉。

BABU SHIVA

In many states of India girls are married to their own oncle sp in tamilnadu

Oncle is like a father why it happening this old tradition still

Hat of to the bride to take this example steps ho that many girls will understand that we should not married to our oncle equal to father

在印度的许多邦，很多女孩嫁给自己的叔舅，比如泰米尔纳德邦

叔舅就像父亲，为什么还有这个古老的传统？我向新娘致敬，希望许多女孩能明白，我们不能嫁给与父亲地位相当的叔舅

Siva K

Of the girl wants to stop the proceedings she should have fought with her parents. Releasing a video denigrating the family and the boy is not right. When you level some charges you must submit proof. If a man has released a video hurling accusatiin s on a woman he would have been booked. I am not saying that the girl is wr ong. But at the same time accusing anyone without proof is also wrong.

这个女孩想要阻止婚礼，她应该和她的父母争论。发布诋毁家庭和男方的视频是不对的。当你提出一些指控时，你必须提交证据。如果一名男子发布了一段指控一名女子的视频，他就会被立案。我不是说那个女孩是错的。但同时在没有证据的情况下指责别人也是错的。

SB

She didn't want to marry him, is OK. But the other things, like doubting his character etc, seems to me a bit exaggerated... would the girl's mother make the alliance if it was so ? Or may be it was her brother, but the father ?

她不想嫁给舅舅，没关系。但是其他的事情，比如怀疑他的性格等等，在我看来有点夸张……

Bush george

Good tradition should be carried forward but bad tradition should be abolished. It must work across all religions, language, caste and whatever.

好的传统应该发扬，坏的传统应该废除，适用于所有宗教、种姓等等。

Bush george

How can you marry your uncle? That is disgusting.

怎么能嫁给自己的舅舅？恶心。