Bride shortage forces 40,000 Tamil Nadu Brahmins to try luck in UP, Bihar

新娘短缺，泰米尔纳德邦4万婆罗门男孩到北方邦和比哈尔邦碰运气

CHENNAI: With more than 40,000 young Tamil Brahmin men finding it difficult to find brides within the state, the Tamil Nadu based association for Brahmins has launched a special drive to look for suitable matches from the same community in Uttar Pradesh and Bihar.

泰米尔纳德邦4万多名年轻的婆罗门男子发现在自己的邦很难找到新娘，位于泰米尔纳德邦的婆罗门协会发起了一项特别活动，从北方邦和比哈尔邦的婆罗门寻找合适的伴侣。

"We have launched a special movement on behalf of our Sangam," said Thamizhnadu Brahmin Association (Thambraas) president N Narayanan in an open letter published in the association's monthly Tamil magazine's November issue.

泰米尔纳德邦婆罗门协会主席纳拉亚南在该协会11月号的泰米尔月刊上发表的一封公开信中说：“我们已经代表我们的Sangam发起了一场特别运动。”

Quoting rough estimates, Narayanan said more than 40,000 Tamil Brahmin men, in the age group of 30-40, could not get married as they were unable to find brides within the state.

Giving a ballpark figure, he said, "If there are 10 Brahmin boys in the marriageable age group, only six girls are available in Tamil Nadu."

纳拉亚南说，超过4万名30-40岁的泰米尔婆罗门男子没有结婚，他们在自己的邦找不到对象。

他说：“在泰米尔纳德邦，每10个适龄婆罗门男孩，只有6个适龄的婆罗门女孩。

以下是印度时报读者的评论：

S P

Good news. Better national integration.

好消息。有利于民族融合

User Ram

This is caste integration. If you marry a bride from anywhere in India, then, it is national integration.

这是种姓融合啦。只要是娶国内的新娘，那么就是民族融合。

Phakya Shakya

Nothing integration. They want fair skin girls for alliance. Nothing else.

不是什么融合，他们想娶白肤色的女孩，别说得那么高大上

S C 15568

They should look for intercaste marriages to strengthen Hindus..

他们应该选择跨种姓婚姻，加强印度教的实力

Ravi Narayanan

Who said it is not happening? I am a Tamil Brahmin and I know my community well. A large number of brahmin families have non brahmin daughter in laws and son in laws. There are many reasons for this looking for brahmin grils from UP and Bihar. A Tamil brahmin boy earning 50K to 60K per month finds it difficult to get a Tamil Brahmin Girl. Most of the Tamil Brahmin girls are well educated and earn more than the average salaries. The typical expectation of boy earning more than the girl, being more qualified and is an elder at least by a day makes it difficult to get a girl for many boys.

我是来自泰米尔邦的婆罗门，我很了解我们的群体。很多婆罗门家庭都有非婆罗门的儿媳和女婿。

寻找来自北方邦和比哈尔邦的婆罗门女孩有很多原因。一个月收入5万到6万的泰米尔婆罗门男孩发现很难找到合适的泰米尔婆罗门女孩。

大多数泰米尔婆罗门女孩受过良好教育，收入高于平均水平。人们通常期望男孩比女孩挣得多，比女孩大，这让很多男孩很难找到合适的女孩。

Ram Kumar

Most people in TN are non-vegetarian.

泰米尔纳德邦大多数人是非素食者

Shikhar Singh

Obsession of fair skin girls is the real reason

主要是那些人迷恋白皙肤色的女孩

Politically Homeless

BS. The real reason is many TN brahmins are well educated and have moved out of the state because of harassment by local parties. So the expectation by the girl who has moved abroad is also a guy who is abroad. The girl here also wants to marry so someone abroad.

胡说八道！真正的原因是许多泰米尔纳德邦的婆罗门受过良好的教育，由于地方政党的骚扰而离开了泰米尔纳德邦。移居国外的女孩的期望也是找一个在国外的男孩。

Vamsi Secbad

Yet Tamil Nadu is a progressive state that all other states can learn from.

然而，泰米尔纳德邦是一个进步的邦，其他邦都应该以这个邦为榜样

johny

Never trust a Brahmin I am sure there are some devious reasons behing this.

永远不要相信婆罗门，我相信这背后一定有其他原因。

Bloggervat Vat

Ha ha haa. Its not shortage of brides. Its shortage of BRAHMIN brides. ROFL

哈哈哈，不是缺少新娘，而是缺少婆罗门新娘，哈哈哈

Bonny Moraes

Maybe, Brahmin brides are choosy.

也许吧。婆罗门新娘比较挑

Rational Corp

Maybe Brahmin brides don't want Brahmin grooms

也许婆罗门新娘不想嫁给婆罗门新郎

E Tester

India still living in Maha Bharat times, why not marry shudars dalit girls who are educated and break this caste barrier

印度仍然生活在“摩诃巴拉特”时代啊，他们为什么不娶受过良好教育的达利特女孩，可以打破种姓壁垒啊

Vamsi Secbad

Yes, national identity is important. Caste identity is backward and anti-national.

是的，国家认同很重要。而种姓认同是落后的思想

User

Why? Marriage is a personal preference,

为什么，婚姻的选择是个人偏好啊

Praveen .Kumar

Actually it's not personal preference as shown in the article... its family preference... lol

实际上，不是个人偏好，而是家里逼的

johny

Brahmins are the ones who created the caste problem

就是那些婆罗门一手创立的种姓制度

Laxmi Pandit

Tamil brahmins like many others aborted female foetuses. Now they are paying the price for that. There is a shortage of women in north india too. The only option now is to go for second hand women or to share wives.

泰米尔婆罗门也重男轻女。现在他们正在为此付出代价。印度北部也缺乏女性。现在唯一的办法是找二婚或者和别人共用妻子

User Ram

Very correct. Widows can be encouraged to marry.

说得太对了，我们可以鼓励寡妇再婚

Mili Haldar

What nonsense is this? Dear unmarried Tamil Brahmin boys, please marry any girl who will understand and love you and your family. Live happily with her. Who cares for caste in the 21st century?

亲爱的未婚泰米尔婆罗门男孩，只要是理解和爱你和你的家庭的女孩，都可以娶，和她幸福地生活在一起。都21世纪了，谁还在乎你是什么种姓啊

caaknidee

Why not marry from other caste.

为什么不和其他种姓的人结婚呢?

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they dont want . they want to keep their cast grow. why others bother?

他们不想啊。他们想让自己的种姓人丁兴旺

Vamsi

Because it is discrimination and discrimination is not allowed in civilized societies.

这是歧视，在文明社会这是不允许的