Time for India to criminalise marital rape

印度是时候将婚内强奸定为犯罪了

“Sex workers can say no, why not married women?” This was the Delhi High Court’s question to the government on marital rape. Palki Sharma tells you why it’s high time India criminalised marital rape.

德里高等法院对婚内强奸的质询：“性工作者可以拒绝，为什么已婚女性不能呢?”

印度是时候将婚内强奸定为犯罪了

以下是Youtube上印度网民的评论：

Ravi kumar

Laws should be made against those who put false rape case .men are also human ..there are not here to be punished by being falsely accused...

我们应该制定法律来惩治那些诬告强奸的人。

男人也是人，被诬告了不应该受到惩罚…

kushagra rastogi

Make rape laws gender neutral too. Men also face sexual crimes by woman. It's not that vice versa is impossible. Even if rare

强奸法应该保持性别中立。男性也面临女性的性侵，并非不可能，即使很少

DR Suzuki650

To all those men who think that a woman owes them sex remember this. If you make her fear you then she will not only never love you but when your old or sick you will pay dearly for your abuse.

那些认为女人欠他们性的男人，请记住这一点：如果你让她怕你，那么她不仅永远不会爱你，而且当你老了或生病时，你将为虐待她付出沉重代价。

PFR

Society must do something about false rape cases as well. Lives of innocent men also matter.

我们也必须对虚假强奸案采取行动。无辜男性的生命也很重要。

Manish Samant

First criminalise false rape cases by women. men also have feelings palki. We are not your scapegoat.

首先，女性诬告强奸也要定罪。男人不是替罪羊。

gearjams

there will be serious loop hole if they directly criminalize marital rape. man has to pay if they divorce but if this happens men could be falsely accused

如果直接将婚内强奸定为犯罪，会有严重的漏洞。离婚后男方是要付赡养费的，男方可能会被诬告

Subhankar Baral

Now, I am not saying that marital rape doesn't exst. In fact, I also support criminalization of marital rape but it should be made in such a way that it will punish a woman too if she was found lying and gives husband the right to divorce without making him pay a single dime.

我并不是说婚内强奸不存在。事实上，我也支持将婚内强奸定为犯罪，但如果女方说谎，应该惩罚女方，并给予男方离婚的权利，不用向女方支付一分钱。

VIJAY KUMAR

Dont treat men as evil…in india mostly women get into trouble from mother in law ..again thats a women..and men are not here in this world to abuse women…and yes if a women thinks she can live alone in this world..thats a great thing..and if women feel that she cannot marry and carry on in family life she can decide not to marry…

不要把男人当成恶魔，在印度，大多数女人受婆婆压制。如果一个女人认为她可以独自生活在这个世界上，这是了不起的，如果女人觉得她不想结婚，不想过家庭生活，她可以决定不结婚。

Samiran Rai

INDIA SHOULD ADOPT USEFUL LAWS

印度应该制定有用的法律

Suhas Tadas

Rape is no small crime to be bandied about. Guilty or not, once accused, forever reputation is shattered. It is a irreversible damage.

强奸不是小罪，不管你是否有罪，一旦被指控，你会永远名誉扫地。这是一种不可逆转的损害。

ArmaanElif

Then why do you need to do marriage then?

那为什么要结婚呢?

Rakesh Gupta

Any idea how many innocent men will get punished by this? Currently, men have the responsibility to prove their innocence or face charges. In cases of marriage, this will be very tough. There can be cases where rape can happen without any signs of violence.  These should not happen but such allegations are hard to disprove.

你知道有多少无辜的人会因此受到惩罚吗？

男性要证明自己的清白，否则将面临指控。

在婚姻持续期间，这是非常困难的。

有些情况下，强奸发生时没有任何暴力迹象。但这些指控很难反驳。

Jack1981 K

Maybe its time to make law for men where women would not get alimony and any part of property or financial assets in the marriage. Women have become independent so probably they should create their own wealth and not depend on monthly compensation.

也许是时候为男性制定法律，让女性在婚姻中得不到赡养费和任何财产或金融资产。

女性已经独立了，她们应该自己创造财富，而不是依赖于男人。

Jishanth Joy

Marriage must be life time . But forcing is wrong  .  Even after marriage that should be with both person's consent . But there should be reasonable reason to reject ,

婚姻是一辈子的事，但强迫是不对的。即使在结婚之后，也应该得到对方的同意，应该有合理的理由拒绝，

Sandip

I'm strongly agree with Palki Ma'am. Rape is a rape. It's the matter of consent.

同意，强奸就是强奸。

Churchill ki mkb

So basically you have to make a video of her consent along with time mentioned every time you go to do sox for legal safety purpose

所以男方每次都要拍一段她同意的视频，并提到时间，以保证合法

Suhas S

Sometimes a woman will say no no , but what she actually means is yes yes. When u see your darling brooding or upset you will ask them ( honey are you okay ? ) she will say nothing is wrong, but what she actually means is ( im not alright and i need your attention ). Women send mixed signals to men and not always straight forward, so if your woman is going to call you a rapist down the line in the future, is it a yes yes or no no ? This is getting too confusing :P

有时候女人会说“不”，而她实际上的意思是“是”。

当你看到她闷闷不乐或心烦意乱时，你会问(亲爱的，你还好吗?)

她会说没事，她真正的意思是(我有事，需要你的关注)。

女人会向男人发出信号，并不总是直截了当，

所以如果你的女人将来说你强奸，你说是还是不是?

这太让人困惑了

Anna L. Vajda

Yeah well particularly with domestic abuse many women do not really "consent" to sex with their husbands.

是的，尤其是在家庭暴力的情况下，很多女性并不真的“同意”与丈夫发生性行为。

Sabyasachi, The fighter

When the woman doesn't agree, husband shouldn't force her, that's the law of human beings. Some husbands doesn't know how to treat their wives. We all should respect every woman.

女人不同意的时候，丈夫就不应该勉强她，这是人之常情。有些丈夫不知道如何对待自己的妻子。我们应该尊重每一个女人。

satya mohanty

Marraige is all about sacrifice and understand each other . Men sacrifices also like women. In india we often do things for our loved ones if dont have wish because to save relationship. Men also go through various sacrifices. By this logic for every small thing we have to take permission for other.

婚姻就是相互理解、相互妥协。为了挽救关系。男人也应该付出各种各样的牺牲。按照这个逻辑，每一件小事都要得到对方的许可。

Canada Motors 2020

If we criminalize non consensual sex in a marriage, it would open up a new pandora of problems. Live in relationships will go up where a man can walk out anytime there is disagreement.

如果我们将婚姻中未经对方同意的性行为定为犯罪，这将打开一个潘多拉，导致很多问题。

Yeswanth Naveen

There are already enough laws for women , we just have to implement it well.

保护女性的法律已经够多了，我们只需要把这些法律执行好就行。

Bujji Kallamparambil

A rape is a punishable offense irrespective of whether a female is married or not . None should force sex on the partner just on the name of marriage .

无论女性是否结婚，强奸都是应受惩罚的犯罪行为。任何人都不能以婚姻的名义强迫伴侣发生性行为。

Nina Peace

Wife or not , no means no!

不管是不是你的妻子，“不”就是不同意

shaarad pandey

Denying sex to husband should be crime...

拒绝和丈夫过夫妻生活应该定为犯罪…

Jahz Wolf

Just outlaw marriage would be simpler.  Too many kids anymore anyway

取消婚姻更简单，反正孩子太多了

Soumyajyoti Sarkar

someday a wife offers to try Roleplay

next time she will go to court saying it was rape

有一天，妻子提出尝试角色扮演

下次她会去法庭告那是强奸

Sid KAY

Whenever a person consents to marriage, he/she consents to sex with spouse.  That is the fundamental tenet of marital relationship.  So, there cannot be any such thing as marital rape.  However, if a person engages in violence to get sex, it would amount to domestic violence, not rape....

只要同意结婚，他/她就同意与配偶发生性行为。这是婚姻关系的基本原则。所以，不可能存在婚内强奸。但是，如果为了性行为而实施暴力，这是家庭暴力，不是强奸

Rebel Studio2

No man has a moral right to tell another man what he can and cannot do in his own home.

没有人有权利告诉另一个人他在自己家里能做什么不能做什么。

Sagar Paul

This topic is too much complicated as these laws will be misused more then being used...

If such laws introduced then man have to sign a legal paper for every intercourse as they can even be trapped...

这个话题太复杂了，法律会被滥用的。如果引入了这样的法律，那么男人必须为每一次夫妻生活签署一份法律文件，否则可能陷入麻烦……