印度北方邦一位新郎在舞台上亲吻新娘，新娘随即取消婚礼

Bride calls off wedding after groom kisses her on stage in UP's Sambhal

北方邦桑巴尔一位新郎在舞台上亲吻新娘，新娘随即取消婚礼

BAREILLY: A young woman called off her wedding in UP's Sambhal after the groom kissed her on stage in front of nearly 300 guests on Tuesday night. The surprise kiss came right after the couple exchanged garlands. The bride immediately walked off from the dais and later called the police.

The woman, 23, a graduate, said the groom kissed her to win a bet with his friends, and now she is "doubtful about his character". The wedding was called off, and the guests returned home. Police tried to mediate, but the bride refused to give in.

After the bride called the police, both parties were taken to the thana, where she told cops: "He was touching me inappropriately while we were on the stage, but I ignored it. Then he did something unexpected. I was shocked and felt insulted. He didn't care about my self-respect and acted badly in front of several guests. How would he act in the future? I have decided not to go with him."

周二晚上，因为新郎在舞台上当着近300名宾客的面吻了新娘，这位北方邦桑巴尔的年轻新娘随即取消了婚礼。这个令新娘大惊失色的吻发生在新人交换花环后，随后新娘立即从舞台上走下并报警。

这名23岁，拥有大学学历的新娘表示，新郎亲吻她是为了赢得朋友间的赌注，现在她“怀疑新郎的人品”。婚礼取消了，客人们陆续离场。警察试图调解，但新娘拒绝让步。

新娘报警后，警察把双方带到警局，新娘告诉警察:“我们站在舞台上，他不合时宜地触摸我，但我忍了。可他又做了出格的举动。我很震惊，感觉受到了侮辱。他不关心我的自尊，在几位客人面前的表现很不得体。结婚后他会不会更肆无忌惮？我不想跟他过了。”

Her mother said, "My (would-be) son-in-law was provoked by his friends, and now my daughter doesn't want to go with him. We tried convincing her, but she didn't agree. We have decided to wait a few days and let her take some time." Bahjoi station house officer (SHO) Pankaj Lavania, under whose jurisdiction the case falls, told TOI, "Technically the couple is married as the rituals were done by the time the incident happened. But she has rejected the groom, Vivek Agnihotri, 26. We will decide what to do after waiting for a couple of days for things to cool down."

Two weddings were cancelled in Shahjahanpur and Lakhimpur Kheri earlier because the grooms broke into a "nagin (snake) dance".

她的母亲说：“我的(准)女婿受到了朋友的挑衅，现在我女儿不想嫁过去。我们想劝她，但她不肯让步。我们决定再等几天，让她冷静一下。”此案属于巴乔伊派出所警官Pankaj Lavania的管辖范围，他告诉《印度时报》:“从法律上说，这对夫妇已经结婚了，因为意外发生时婚礼仪式已经完成了。但她拒绝了26岁的新郎Vivek Agnihotri。我们会等几天让事态降温，再来决定下一步这么做。”

此前，因为新郎突然跳起了“蛇舞”，沙贾汉布尔和勒金布尔凯里也有两场婚礼中途取消。

以下是印度时报读者的评论：

RP•12 hours ago

In western culture the bride and the groom kiss after the wedding. I think Indians have become too much westernized.

在西方文化中，新娘和新郎是在婚礼后接吻的。我认为印度人已经太西化了。

GURU SANKAR•NewDelhi•2 days ago

Now a days very common taking pre wedding photo shoot etc, Bride are sitting groom's lap for shoot, lifting

现在拍婚纱照已经很普遍了，拍照是新娘也会坐在新郎的腿上

GURU SANKAR•NewDelhi•2 days ago

Why girls are doing such a filmsy style drama, she must have some boyfriend to avoid marriage

为什么女孩子要搞这种夸张的电影情节呢，她肯定另有男朋友，只是借此逃避婚姻

Dharnish B R•2 days ago

The girl did right. Good on her for having self-respect.

新娘做得对。她很自爱，值得尊敬。

Vignesh India•Bengaluru•2 days ago

Don't trust these women, probably had a lover and was arranged married hurriedly so drama for stop the wedding.By the time he kissed,the wedding was over, so what's wrong in husband kissing a wife?Happens in Christian weddings.This girl is just creating drama....

不相信这些女人，她们估计有男朋友，只是被父母安排了结婚对象，所以搞这么一出戏纯粹是想要搞黄婚礼。当新郎亲吻新娘的时候，婚礼已经结束了，那么丈夫亲吻妻子何错之有？在基督教婚礼上都是这样。这个女孩只是在搞事情....

American Desi•NYC•2 days ago

What's wrong with kissing? He was there getting married to her! Why be so rigid with your life? Friends do tease and say things- we all know that. Stop trying to bring in self-respect and other stupid cultural stuff. In a way it is good she walked away because they are not meant for each other. She would have made his life hell.

接吻怎么了？新郎新娘正在举办婚礼！你的生活为什么这么死板？我们都知道，朋友间常常会开玩笑互损。别扯什么自重自爱和愚蠢的文化了。从某种程度上说，她不嫁了也是件好事，因为他们明显不是一对儿。她会让他生不如死。

Shovon Dutta•2 days ago

This is what happens in gutter pradesh.. Woow..

这事发生在北方邦，太正常了。

Poda De•2 days ago

If the bride is so touchy, she must feel pollutes after the groom's kiss and stick to him only instead of calling off the wedding !

如果新娘这么敏感，那么新郎吻她后，她肯定会觉得被玷污了，应该更粘住他才对，不会就这么取消婚礼的！

User P•2 days ago

In a way this is good, as any understanding or misunderstanding has come up at a very early stage to take next course of action by both of them.

在某种程度上，这是好事，因为任何理解或误解都是早早埋下的，双方需要采取下一步行动。

User Factual•2 days ago

Admire the girl's immense courage.

羡慕这个女孩的极大勇气。

Ram Sinha•2 days ago

very good, girl.

好样的，女孩。

Rahul Sc•Mumbai•2 days ago

Kudos to the girl for realizing early how reckless and callous his groom can turn out to be. Unfortunately, it is a bit late as the marriage rituals were already done. Still, it is the right decision for both bride & groom for not going through the misery of mismatch and conflicts.

这个女孩早早意识到新郎的鲁莽和无情，值得称赞。但可惜还是有点迟了，因为结婚仪式已经完成了。但这对新娘和新郎来说都是正确的决定，免去了日后不合和冲突的痛苦。

Cb Guest•Unknown•2 days ago

desperate groom could not wait few days..

新郎就这么饥渴么？不能多等几天？

Arjun patil•2 days ago

IT IS NOT OUR CULTURE.! I ADMIRE BRIDE FOR THE SAME.

这不是我们的文化。我本人也很钦佩新娘。

ZN swq2•2 days ago

May be bride thought he is naturist kissing in open and she suspect he don't do anything in closed doors.

可能是新娘怀疑他是裸体运动者，喜欢在公开场合接吻，怀疑他关起门啥事都不会做。

Jagdish Madan•Unknown•2 days ago

Idiotic groom took up his friends' challenge to violate his newly wed wife' dignity in public. Right decision by the self respecting bride.

愚蠢的新郎接受了朋友的挑战，当众侵犯新婚妻子的尊严。自重的新娘做出了正确的决定。

User Iyer•2 days ago

I appreciate the bold action of bride

我欣赏新娘的大胆行为。

•2 days ago

correct time for groom to get away from starting relationship with this horrible bride....right now she is doing this what will she after marriage

让新郎远离这个可怕的新娘，这个时间再好不过了....她现在就这样，那结婚后还会做出什么疯狂的事？

Prasenjit Biswas•2 days ago

Rightly done by the Bride. Dignity and Self respect are everything

新娘的行为没毛病。自尊自爱就是一切。

Prakki Satyamurty•Nidadavolu•2 days ago

She should refuse him only if he kisses another woman. What is wrong in kissing his wife or would-be ? The girl should have gone to the microphone and warned his friends to behave.

只有当新郎亲吻别的女人，新娘才应该拒绝他。亲吻妻子或未婚妻有什么错？女孩应该走到麦克风前，警告他的朋友们不要太过分。

sonjusen 22113

Lucky man! Rest of his live is saved from this "pious lady.

真是个幸运的新郎！他可以免受这位“虔诚女士”的折磨了。

Suvendu Baral 11835

Can't say the gir is wrong as the boy as tendency to bow down to friends request... one incident is not enough to judge anyone.. give them time

我觉得女孩没错，这男孩这么轻易就向朋友妥协了…但凭一件事给一个人定罪未免仓促，多给他们一点时间吧。

User Singh 10852

Bad breath may be the reason.. for break up .

也许是因为男的有口臭吧。

Aspire to lnspire 48548

The groom could have got over excited and lost senses to act rationa v.. The woman should be admired for standing up for her dignity.

新郎可能是被兴奋冲昏了头脑。女方坚持维护自己的尊严，钦佩。

YouSaidIt 1653

I don't see any problem with the girl, she did the right thing. This guy kissed her against her wish. ln western culture also. when the groom kisses the bride, that's not forceful. This guy should be booked.

我不觉得这女孩的做法有什么问题，她做得很对。这男的违背她的意愿吻了她。西方文化也是如此，新郎亲吻新娘的时候必须是自愿的。这家伙应该被逮捕。

Krishnamurthy Krishnamurthy 37641

Lucky escape for bridegroom. She would have been boring rigid wife had he got married to her.

新郎真幸运，躲过了这个新娘。如果真把她娶回家，她肯定是个乏味刻板的妻子。

Achal Joshi 14059

When Over-Enthusiasm meets Over Reaction...Game Over

当激情派遇到夸张派，剧终。

Prabhakar R 549

Both the bride and the groom saved themselves from a lot of future trouble!

新郎和新娘都解脱了，免去了未来的许多麻烦！

R 3 days ago rajiv201918 604

Groom was saved from future harassment by such an arrogant wife..