Why do so many foreigners go to Thailand to find women?

为什么那么多外国人涌入泰国找女人？

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Anonymous

Thais are quite open. Due to the huge tourism industry there, Thais are quite familiar with people from various places.

Besides that, unlike in some other countries, Thais are perfectly fine with international, interracial, or interfaith marriages. As long as the foreigner respects Thai customs and is able to sustain a decent living for his family, Thais usually wouldn't make much fuss.

泰国人很开放。泰国旅游业发达，所以泰国人对来自不同国家的人都很熟悉。

除此之外，和有些国家不同的是，泰国人完全接受跨国、跨种族或跨信仰的婚姻。只要外国人尊重泰国的习俗，并且能够养家糊口，泰国人通常不会大惊小怪。

Oh, another thing, Thailand might be a develo country, but is a reasonably nice place to live, nevertheless. Moreover, the Thai immigration law is not very restrictive. As long as a foreigner can earn a decent living and doesn't make trouble, most of the time he/she can live there.

Last but not least, Thailand has a big foreigner community. Unlike in many other develo countries, even many Western long-term residents of Thailand can speak Thai.

哦，还有一点，也许泰国只是一个发展中国家，但却是一个相当宜居的地方。此外，泰国的移民法并不太严格。只要一个外国人能有体面的生活，不惹麻烦，大多数时候他/她就能住在那里。

最后还有一点，泰国有一个规模相当大的外国人社区。和其他很多发展中国家不同的是，长居泰国的西方居民也会说泰语。

I feel compelled to write this after reading some other answers which characterize Thai women as subservient. You may indeed be able to get a subservient Thai girl, but that girl will likely be a village girl without much education. A well-educated professional Thai woman is just like any other well-educated professional women: they are not going to put up with bullshit from insecure low-life men.

我看到有些回答说泰国女性很顺从，我觉得我必须写点什么。也许你确实能找到顺从的泰国女孩，但那个女孩很可能只是一个没有受过太多教育的农村女孩。而受过良好教育的泰国职业女性和其他受过良好教育的职业女性都是一样的：她们不会容忍没有保障的底层男人的疯言疯语。

Clinton

Let’s be honest. It’s a place a 40 to 50 year old ugly guy can find a 20 something pretty girl to marry because her family needs the money. Same with Russian brides and Central American brides.

They aren’t buying them so not exactly human trafficking, but the expectation is the fat guy will send money back to her family.

说实话吧。一个四五十岁的丑男可以在这里找到20多岁的漂亮妻子，因为她的家庭需要钱。俄罗斯新娘和中美洲新娘也是如此。

他们不会花钱买女人，所以算不上人口贩卖，但人们都盼着那个胖子会寄钱给泰国妻子的娘家。

James Riley

I think it may happen because by and large, Thai women are sweet and most know how to cook. They largely enjoy the role of housewife, caring for the kids, cooking, cleaning, etc. Knowing this, treat your Thai lady with love, respect, and honor her integrity and family. God help you if you do something bad to piss her off…you will be having your meals at a noodle shop and slee in a hammock outside. This isn’t a misogynistic view, it’s just how it is. I respect that most Thai women will not sugar coat their feelings.

要我看，这可能是因为整体而言，泰国女性都很甜美，基本上都会做饭。她们大多都很享受家庭主妇的角色，照顾孩子，做饭，打扫卫生等。牢记这一点，用爱和敬重善待你的泰国女友，尊重她的正直和家人。如果你做了什么惹她生气的坏事，你就只能在面馆吃饭，睡在外面的吊床上了。大多数泰国女性不会粉饰她们的感情，我十分尊重她们这一点。

I came here 7 years ago nearly fluent in Thai. Wasn’t looking for a girl, as my wife had passed away 6 months prior. By chance I met a beautiful woman and we are still together after nearly 6 years.

我七年前来到泰国，现在几乎可以说一口流利的泰语了。我不是来这里在找女伴的，我妻子6个月前去世了。一次偶然的机会，我遇到了一个漂亮的女人，我们一起生活了将近6年。

David Bowman

There are many reasons why foreigners go to Thailand to find women.

For starters, the country is known for its beautiful beaches and tropical climate, making it an ideal destination for a romantic getaway.

Additionally, Thai culture is very welcoming and open-minded towards foreign visitors, which makes it easier for people from different countries to connect with each other.

Finally, there's no denying that Thai women have a reputation of being incredibly attractive and friendly - qualities that make them highly sought after by men from all over the world!

外国人去泰国找女人的原因有很多。

首先，泰国海滩和热带气候的美名传遍天下，成了很多人浪漫度假的理想目的地。

此外，泰国文化对外国游客非常欢迎和开放，不同国家的人更容易结识。

最后，不可否认的是，泰国女性太有魅力了，又十分友好，受到了世界各地男性的追捧！

James Volk

Thai women are beautiful with their long black hair and slim bodies. American women over 45 are fat and loaded with attitude and not worth the trouble. I will find a good Thai wife when the covid passes (if it ever does)

泰国女人有着乌黑的长发和曼妙的身材，非常漂亮。45岁以上的美国女人又胖又拽，不值得为她们费心。新冠疫情结束后，我也要好好找一个泰国妻子(如果疫情真的能过去的话)。

Bullimalinna Sot

this foreigners don’t have any game in their own countries and rather pick on poor,uneducated, village women, or street “prostitute” … the Sad part if the foreigners is rich he will sign his will and not give none to his first marriage family and let the Thailand women rule his land from his grand-parents and investment… then this Thailand women will married are truth love from Asia. You got to ask yourself this, a foreigner can make up his career and say he rich but later she found out that he is just a normal person… break up easy.. happen all the time…

这些外国人在他们自己的国家一事无成，宁愿选择贫穷、缺乏教育的农村妇女，或者街头“妓女”。可悲的是，如果这个外国人有钱，他会签署遗嘱，不给他上一段婚姻关系的家庭留下任何财产，而是让泰国女人打理他从祖父母手中继承的土地和投资，然后这个泰国女人会嫁给来自她的真爱，一个亚洲人。你得问问自己：如果一个外国人吹嘘自己的事业，说自己很有钱，但后来她发现他只是一个普通人，分手就是分分钟的事，这种事时常发生，实在是太普遍了。

Leah Sim

Foreigners like to marry women from Asia. This is normal in many Asian countries. Finding women is a favorite past time for men. Cultures vary though and there could be blatant or discreet displays of love and attention.

外国人喜欢娶亚洲女人。这在许多亚洲国家都是很正常的。找女人是男人最喜欢的消遣。尽管各国文化各不相同，但爱和关心的表现可以很高调，也可以很低调。

Kevin Getz

probably lower cost of living, I think prostitutes are cheaper to hire than in “western”countries (never been in Thailand), they may find Thai women in general attractive..they may be interested in “ladyboys” , there seem to be many in Thailand, prostitution seems accepted. they may be interested in very young women which would be illegal to have sex with in their own country, or illegal to hire as a prostitute.

may prefer generally smaller/Asian women

possibly they like other things about Thailand, the culture, food, climate, beaches etc

大概是因为这里的生活成本更低，泰国妓女也比“西方”国家更便宜(从未去过泰国)，他们可能觉得泰国女人很有魅力，他们可能对“人妖”感兴趣，泰国好像有很多人妖，卖淫也不算啥。他们可能对非常年轻的女性感兴趣，但在他们自己的国家，跟小姑娘发生性关系、招妓都是非法行为。

他们可能更喜欢小个子/亚洲女性。

他们可能喜欢泰国的其他方面，比如文化、食物、气候、海滩等。

James Reed

This happens a lot of course but I have another answer, too.

I found that living in Thailand without a Thai women was difficult. Many find this to be the case. So we find a woman in order to make our lives better here.

Today I am happily married to a Thai lady who I hope to spend the rest of my life with. Life here is good.

当然，这种情况经常发生，但我想说点不一样的。

我发现如果没有泰国女伴，要在泰国生活十分困难。许多人都意识到这一点。所以我们找个女人是为了让自己在这里生活得更舒服。

今天，我和一位泰国女士幸福地结婚了，我希望和她共度余生。泰国的生活真的很美妙。

Darren Hughes

Well, why shouldn’t they? This is how I see it (as someone with no stake in the discussion, I have never dated nor had sex with a Thai woman nor have I ever frequented any kind of brothel anywhere…) is why should anyone sit depressed and alone in their own country and why should anyone think they’re in the position to judge?

No-one laments about the many middle-aged women from all over Europe who fly to places like Turkey and Gambia to get laid off a virile!

嗯，他们不能在泰国找女人么？这就是我的看法(我跟这个讨论毫无相似之处，我从未和泰国女人约过会，也没有发生过性关系，更没有光顾过任何妓院……)为什么你们觉得别人就该郁郁寡欢地在自己的国家单着呢，为什么你们觉得自己有资格对别人评头论足呢？

很多欧洲各国的中年妇女飞到土耳其和冈比亚找男人，没人说三道四！

It’s their choice, I would rather them do that than sit in depression in a town like Grimsby where their only pleasure is a weekly night down the bingo.

这是他们的选择，我支持他们，不要继续在格里姆斯比这样的小镇上垂头丧气，唯一的乐趣仅仅是每周玩一次bingo游戏。

What these young people who go on about ‘fat middle aged men’ don’t get is that one day, they will be middle aged too, and more than likely - because most of them won’t have looked after themselves and drunk, smoked and took too many drugs in your youth whilst doing no exercise - is they’ll look like shit and they will be fat and unattractive just like the people they are dismissing at this moment in time. That time will come real quick for them. If you ever get to read the passage from Hakuri Murakami’s book (What I Talk About When I Talk About Running) about Mick Jagger singing ‘Satisfaction’ at 45 then that’s probably the best passage ever written about the arrogance of youth and time.

这些嘲笑“中年肥胖男子”的年轻人并没有意识到，总有一天，他们也会步入中年，而且很有可能——因为他们中的大多数人都照顾不好自己，年轻时酗酒、吸烟、吸毒，也不健身——他们可能会看起来像一坨屎，又胖又没有吸引力。那一天很快就会到来。如果你曾经读过村上春树的书(当我谈论跑步时我谈论什么)中关于米克·贾格尔在45岁时演唱《满足》的一段话，这可能是关于青春的傲慢和时间的最好的一段话。

The fault lies with Thailand and the authorities there, they could stop it all tomorrow (and I would have NO problem with that personally), it’s funny Malaysia right next door does not have the same problem - I wonder why? I wonder why China doesn’t have this problem either nor Singapore.

错在于泰国和泰国当局，他们明天就能叫停这一切（我是完全没意见的），有意思的是，隔壁的马来西亚没有这种问题—我想知道为什么？我还想知道为什么中国和新加坡都没有这个问题。

Stella Hunt

They don’t find ‘women’ they seek pre adolescent girls for . Most of the men who go for this reason, are very sick, evil men from America!

Robbing children of their childhood, is sexual abuse and they go for Lust and twisted ideas of sex and gratification. The rare amount of men who find adult companions to bring back with them, most likely choose the subservient role of a wife, for Control of them, and domination.

他们找的不是“女人”，他们的目标是未成年女孩。大多数为了这个原因来到泰国的男人，都是美国最恶毒的人渣！

剥夺孩子的童年是性虐待，他们追求欲望和扭曲的性爱和满足。极少数找到成年女伴的男人，基本都会选择顺从的妻子，便于控制。

What they get after a few years of these women/wives/slaves, are an enlightened woman who will leave them once they get wise to the ways of living in the Western world. They learn more independence, and find work that expands their knowledge of what relationships should be.

在他们和这些女人/妻子/奴隶生活了几年之后，女人们变聪明了，摸索出了在西方世界的生存之道，立刻就会甩了他们。她们学会了更加独立，找工作，不断学习正常的关系模式。

Lisa Kerman

It’s not only Thailand, you can add Vietnam and Cambodia as well. I suppose it’s because they can find a lot more women, interested in them and more submissive to their advances than where they come from. Asian men don’t do it. I spoke to a Vietnamese about this recently. He concludes it’s because the women are generally poor and see a way out with a new life and wealth with a foreign man.

这种事不仅仅发生在泰国，越南和柬埔寨也是如此。我猜原因可能是跟在他们自己国内相比，他们在这些国家可以找到更多对他们有兴趣、更顺从的女人。亚洲男人不会这样。我最近跟一个越南人聊过这个问题，他总结说这是因为这些女人多数较穷，希望通过搭上外国男子，过上新生活、好生活。

LeRoy Duvall

I am surprised that no one has mentioned that just maybe the foreigners may be expecting a different dynamic in a relationship with a foreign woman. I know a fair number of men who married SE Asian women . I only know two western women who married SE Asian men.

我很震惊，居然没人提到或许是因为外国人希望跟外国女子的关系能带来不一样的新鲜感。我认识很多娶了东南亚太太的男人。但我只认识两位嫁给东南亚先生的西方女性。

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