India has the lowest divorce rate in the world. Here's why
印度是世界上离婚率最低的国家。
India has the lowest divorce rate in the world. Only 1% of Indian marriages end up in divorce. Does this mean Indians are better at maintaining relationships? Or is it because of the stigma around divorce?
印度是世界上离婚率最低的国家。只有1%的印度婚姻以离婚告终。这是否意味着印度人更善于维护人际关系?还是因为离婚会带来耻辱?
印度离婚率是1%,越南是7%
印度93%是包办婚姻,3%是自由恋爱
中国的离婚率是44%,日本是38%,韩国是46%
印度30%的女性遭受过家暴
以下是印度网民的评论:
Rupali Mahajan
My grand parents are now 95...My grandma is 90 and grandpa is 95 they got married when they were 14 in their young ..they are being married from more than 75 years staying together
我的外祖父母现在95岁了,我奶奶90岁了,爷爷95岁了,他们14岁时结婚的。。他们在一起超过75年了
lazaro peedro
That's is great but this is a completely different generation
很棒,不过现在时代不同了
datta
they got married when they were 14? bruh what that sounds illegal
他们14岁时结婚的?听起来是违法的
Neel Patel
To a certain extent societal pressure needs to be there. Making the decision to marry someone should be a really difficult decision due to the societal pressure of not divorcing. An abusive relationship should not be tolerated, they should divorce in these situations but societal values should not be changed, just highlight what should not be tolerated in a marriage, improve the behaviour of men and woman.
在某种程度上,社会压力导致的。在离婚不被接受的社会压力下,决定与某人结婚应该是一个非常难做出的决定。家暴不应被容忍,但社会价值观不应改变,只应强调婚姻中不应容忍的事情,改善男人和女人的行为。
metalheadlass
There is no joy in a marriage when the other person is with you only for the societal pressure.
当另一个人是在社会压力下而和你在一起时,婚姻就没有乐趣可言了
Elaine Lindsey Rampertab
I'm south african. I believe 1 love one marriage. My parents and grandparents were the same the only thing that separated them was death. My husband and i are married for 17 years and i know so many people that are my age and younger that have been divorced. My mother sat me and my husband down and explained the importance off communication before we got married and how we should never go to bed angry, cos tomorrow isnt promised to anyone. Love, respect, Communication and understanding and respecting each other opinions is the most important factors in a marriage
我是南非人。我相信一段爱情一段婚姻。
我的父母和祖父母是这样的,唯一让他们分开的是死亡。
我和丈夫结婚17年了,我认识很多和我同龄或更小的人,他们都离婚了。
我母亲让我和丈夫坐下来,解释了结婚前沟通的重要性,以及我们永远不要带着怒气上床睡觉,因为明天没有承诺给任何人。
爱、尊重、沟通、理解和尊重对方的意见,是婚姻中最重要的因素
Moses
The Indian "divorce" rate is higher than the official 1% discussed here. Many are separated but not divorced. Also, financially it is very challenging to divorce. Lastly, the courts are difficult to deal with in India.
印度的“离婚”率高于官方说的1%。许多人已经分居,但没有离婚。此外,离婚在经济上也带来很大的挑战性。最后,印度的法院很难判决。
pushpinder53316
Madam, in India men also equally tolerate nasty marriages, despite being financially independent
女士,在印度,尽管经济独立,但男性也同样容忍恶劣的婚姻
paru sahu
There is nothing called as perfect marriage we have to make it perfect. Violence shouldn't be tolerated anyhow.
没有所谓的完美婚姻,而是应该努力让婚姻完美。无论如何都不应该容忍家暴
vivek tripathi
in india where jobs are very few and financial security is highly absent , divorce is a costly affair which 80% cant afford.
在印度,工作很少,经济保障也非常缺乏,离婚是一件成本很高的事情,80%的人离不起婚!
liii
Lol that is not a question of money, marriage relationship in India is based on feelings not on the physical relationship and money.
哈哈,这不是钱的问题,印度的婚姻关系是建立在感情上的,而不是建立在物质关系和金钱上的。
Kritarth Jaiswal
We are Indians and we believe marriage is a ' Sanskaar' which at any cost should not be broken .... Very ill mentality and conservative thinking.... But it is India.... What I believe is don't marry if you not find any good partner.... Don't ruin your and anybody ' s life ..... God bless you all
我们是印度人,我们相信婚姻是一种“Sanskaar”,无论如何都不应该被打破。
病态的心态和保守的思维。但这是印度。我相信的是,如果你找不到好的伴侣,就不要结婚。不要毁了你和其他人的生活。神灵保佑你们
savita raghav
I have been in family court and had intership with family counselors...here in India people, i find less mature, parents think marriage is solution for everything. They think people are making mistakes because they are not married at right age, and interference is so much in couples life. Married couple always struggling to find balance between family's influence and their choices about children, career, home and lifestyle.
我参加过家庭法庭,并与家庭顾问进行过交流。在印度,我发现人们不太成熟,父母认为婚姻是解决一切问题的办法。他们认为人们之所以会犯错,是因为他们没有在合适的年龄结婚,而且对夫妻生活的干扰太大了。
已婚夫妇总是在家庭的影响和他们对孩子、职业、家庭和生活方式的选择之间寻找平衡。
Kashmiri Deka
Not every part of India goes for arranged marriages. Northeast India has probably a higher rate of love marriages than arranged marriages
并不是印度每个地方都实行包办婚姻。印度东北部自由恋爱的比例,可能高于包办婚姻
SansinXyz
Hiding behind low divorce rate is very high rate of infidelity. My wife is in touch with her school friends in Kolkata. Nearly half of them have extra-marital affairs and it is an open secret in her friends' circie.
隐藏在低离婚率背后的,是非常高的不忠率。我妻子和她在加尔各答的校友联系。她们中近一半有婚外情,这在她朋友圈是公开的秘密。
youtubah
damn! you should also check on wife too bro be safe
你也应该检查一下妻子啊,兄弟,要注意安全
Balaji Bala
Extra marital affair, adultery is legal in india now, ur wife has rights to go with her friend
现在在印度,婚外情,通奸是合法的,你的妻子有权和她的朋友一起去玩
Ashutosh kumar Dixt
Check your wife too
也查一下你的妻子
SansinXyz
@Ashutosh kumar Dixt Nah, we are good. Three kids and her OBGYN medical profession keep her busy all day
不,我们很好啦,我们有三个孩子,她是妇产科医生,一整天都在忙的
Ashutosh kumar Dixt
@SansinXyz If that is the case, I am happy for you.
如果是这样的话,我为你感到高兴。
AJAYA BEHERA
Not only Indian women but Indian men too feel reluctant to give divorce because high economical cost of it (maintenance & alimony) & fear of false case(domestic violence & dowry ).
不仅是印度女性,印度男性也不愿意离婚,因为离婚的经济成本很高(赡养费、抚养费),而且害怕家庭暴力和嫁妆
Varun Mirasdar
Marriage is getting more and more misunderstood these days.
如今,人们对婚姻越来越存在误解了
Jeffrey Jackson
I'm so glad that I am not married and have never been. What I have seen has caused me to draw this conclusion: people are never satisfied.
The spouse can have a "good" partner in their companion and, yet, never satisfied. I speak of both genders.
A quiet residence is more valuable to me than anything that marriage can offer.
That's how I stand on the matter
我很高兴我没有结婚,也从来没有结过婚。我的所见所闻,让我得出这样的结论:人们永远不会满意的。
配偶可以是一个“好”的伴侣,但永远不会满意。
对我来说,一个安静的住所比婚姻所能带来的都更有价值。
这就是我的看法
Abhi
I love this. Sorry to say but this is the reality of our country. Most of people after hearing will feel offended becz as we know truth is bitter . What i really hate is that society is above all in our culture .Show off in marriage in terms of money, doing arranged marriage , choosing carrer, almost all of important decisions are taken on the basic pre designed path by the so called society.
Most of the parents even care their society more than their own children desires. In fact even parents are so trapped in this spider web like structure of the society that they even don't try to break this. At the end it won't be wrong if i say that most of the people live & spend their life as per the so called complex structure of the society & feel proud .This is so sad & frustrating. But i am happy at the same time that those who has become matured are changing thier own life. It starts with yourself so we need to change ourself first.
抱歉,这是我们国家的现实。大多数人听完后都会感到被冒犯,因为我们知道真相是苦涩的。
我真正讨厌的是,社会在我们的文化中至关重要。在婚姻中炫耀金钱、包办婚姻、选择职业,几乎所有重要的决定都是由所谓的社会在预先设计的道路上做出的。
大多数父母更在意社会的观念,而不那么顾及孩子的愿望。
事实上,即使是父母也被困在这种蜘蛛网般的社会结构中,他们没有试图打破这种结构。
最后,如果我说大多数人都按照所谓的复杂社会结构度过生活,并感到自豪,那也不会错。
这太令人悲伤和沮丧了。
但与此同时,我很高兴那些已经成熟的人正在改变自己的生活。
从你自己开始,我们需要首先改变自己。
Common Sense
Once married, never quit.
一旦结婚,就永不放弃。
Aditi Verma
I really hate to get married.
Marriage is just equivalent to burden and depression.
Single always rocks
I'm very much satisfied to live without marriage.
我真的很讨厌结婚。
婚姻是负担
单身自由自在
我对单身生活感到非常满意。
Dexter Diesel
Way to go ma'am... Will be surprised if I hear the same words from you in future...say 20-25 years...
楼上的女士啊,加油。以后,比如20-25年后,如果你还能说出这样的话,我会很惊讶的。
Karthik Sharma
I just want to say that people give up so easily on marriage In Abroad countries when they can't handle certain things. They will give up on marriage. But in India all the women will have hope that the marriage will get better. That's why there is a low divorce rate.
我只想说,在国外,遇到一些棘手问题,他们会轻易放弃婚姻。而在印度,所有的女性都希望婚姻会变得更美好。这就是印度离婚率低的原因。
Niranjan Prabhu
Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties
结婚意味着权利减半,责任加倍
J J
Our society is built on the tears of mothers
我们印度的社会是建立在母亲的眼泪之上的
Harshit Hardik
Proud to be Indian
我为自己是印度人感到自豪
G
There is nothing to be proud of
没啥好自豪的啊
Blitzkers
@G Low Divorce rate because Loyalty is high
忠诚度高,离婚率低
Common Sense
Never seen any divorce bringing any happiness.
从未见过离婚后幸福的。
Dexter Diesel
The family support system in India is the one the best in the world
印度的家庭支持系统,是世界上最好的
TV wala Maulana
In India, women is not made labour in factory but plays a vital role sha the future of Children.
Men devote their earnings towards the family instead of Gamble, Drink.
Families are united in India.
在印度,妇女不去工厂里打工,而是在培养孩子方面发挥着至关重要的作用。
男人把他们的收入用于家庭,而不是赌博、喝酒。
在印度,家庭是团结的。