Why I am Raising my Kids in China and NOT the USA | The Reasons Will Shock You!

为什么我选择在中国而不是在美国抚养我的孩子，原因会让你震惊

Join me as I discuss the reasons why I am raising my kids in China instead of the USA. Will I stay in China or go back to the US. The decision may shock you, but it's what's best for my family.

为什么我选择在中国而不是美国抚养我的孩子。我是留在中国还是回到美国？这个决定可能会让你震惊，但这是我家人最好的选择。

以下是外国网友的评论：

victor9308

100%no guns、no drugs、no gender problem.

中国百分百没有枪击案、毒品泛滥、性别问题。

user-ie9zz9bi2u

China seem very peaceful and they focus on trading and being friend with all nation. If war was to break out between USA and China I would gladly fight for China and never for USA neocon warmongers.

中国很和平，他们大力发展贸易，与所有国家成为朋友。如果中美之间爆发战争，我很乐意为中国而不是为美国的新保守主义战争贩子而战。

maniaouri2146

Teatchers are highly respected in China, but in Europe they are stubbed

在中国，教师受到高度尊重，但在欧洲，他们却受到冷落

maniaouri2146

The problem that I have is that after living many years in China whenevr i visit Europe I complain about may things i see all around me.  e.g. dirty stations, delayed transport, rude waiters expecting to be tipped, dirty languange on walls , fear in the darkm missing Chinese cuisene and so on, which are all taken for granted for being perfect in China

我的问题是，在中国生活了多年之后，每当我去欧洲时，我都会抱怨周围看到的东西，例如，肮脏的车站，延误的交通，粗鲁的服务员期望你给小费，墙上的涂鸦，在黑暗中感到害怕，想念中国菜等等，而这些问题在中国不存在

12567NoYouCannot

CLEAN & the most important thing; THEY PROTECT PEOPLE with SAFETY.  They have those Glass Walls that Only Open when the Train FINALLY ARRIVES, SO NO children and no one will fall or jump to the train Tracks!!!

干净整洁，最重要的是他们保护人们的安全。他们有那些屏蔽门，只有在列车到达时才会打开，不会有人不小心摔倒或跳到火车轨道上

Maharlikano_XYZ

Kids in China:

- I want to become an engineer

- I want to be a famous chef

- I want to be an architect

Kids in America

- I hAvE mAnY gEnDeRs!

中国孩子：

我想成为一名工程师

我想成为一名著名的厨师

我想成为一名建筑师

美国孩子：

我有很多性别

tuesdae666

I am from Singapore. I lived in Shanghai from 2016 to 2020 for work. Best time of my life. And what an eye opener. Gorgeous country with crazy modern tech yet with ancient soul and culture. Was very very impressed, changed my view towards China and made me realise how different the world can be.

我来自新加坡。2016年至2020年因工作在上海居住。这是我一生中最美好的时光。真让人大开眼界。美丽的国家，拥有令人疯狂的现代科技，也有古老的灵魂和悠久的文化。印象非常深刻，改变了我对中国的看法，让我意识到世界是多么的不同。

tmming-h6k

We in Malaysia support Ur decision b'cuz too dangerous in usa

我们在马来西亚，支持你的决定，因为在美国太危险了

michaelloong964

Raising kids in China is for the parents to transfer and cultivate culture and human to human, and human to nature skill to their children. Promote peace and tranquility of living in human society, respect for the elderly and teachers. Teaching kids not to be involved in anti-social behavior. Such parenting duty is not practiced in the US. The worst situation in the US is the freedom of the kids to take drugs and possessing of guns at young age.  They grow up to care for themselves and not society and community. Many American high tech industries relied on immigrants from  China and India. Politicians indulged in money politics 24/7 oblivious to the broken down infrastructures , dilapidated transport system and high cost of medical care including medicines which belong to the monopoly firms. No citizens care about the rising national debt.and many people work 2 jobs to survive. Facing a government that spreads lies is no way to progress.

在中国养育孩子，是父母向孩子传递和培养文化，教导人与人、人与自然如何相处。

提倡人类社会的和平安宁生活，尊重老人和老师。

教孩子们不要参与反社会行为。这种为人父母的责任在美国是不存在的。

美国最糟糕的是，孩子们在很小的时候就可以自由地吸毒和拥有枪支。他们长大后关心自己，而不是社会和社区。

许多美国高科技产业是中国和印度的移民贡献的。政客们每天24小时沉迷于金钱政治，而忽视了基础设施的崩溃、交通系统的破旧和医疗保健的高昂成本，包括垄断公司的药品。

没有公民关心不断上升的国家债务。许多人打两份工以求生存。

一个散布谎言的美国政府是无法取得进步的。

hank60don

You are right, US is more individualistic and China is more collective. Education has been the predominate theme for thousand of years for Chinese parents to motivate their kids to strive for. For in China, meritocracy still remains to the bar one must pass before they could get anywhere. I do think your kids are in far better position in the future due to the economic opportunities, far more broad minded from international exposure. "No Graffiti," like you said,  it is a sign of respect. It is so prevalent in US, UK, EU, AUS, CAN etc.

你说得对，美国更个人主义，中国更集体主义。几千年来，教育一直是中国父母激励孩子努力奋斗的主要主题。

在中国，精英制度仍然是一个人在取得成就之前必须通过的门槛。我认为你的孩子在未来会处于更好的位置，有经济机会，从国际接触中获得更广阔的视野。

"禁止涂鸦"就像你说的，这是尊重的表现，涂鸦在美国、英国、欧盟、澳大利亚、加拿大等地非常普遍。

brianliew5901

It's a total insult to compare a civilized society to a jungled one.

将文明社会与丛林社会相对，这是侮辱人家。

WEBFundamental

Raised 3 kids in America and was not like I had a choice. I had a lot of scares but they ultimately turn out to be fine. If I have a choice, I would choose a place with safe and healthy environment and avoid all the worries that could have shortened my life by many years.

在美国养了三个孩子，我别无选择。我有过很多恐惧，但最终都没事。如果可以选择的话，我会选择一个环境安全健康的地方，避免所有的烦恼，这些烦恼可能缩短了我的寿命。

gamingtideX

Wise choice sir. You speak truth 110% It's a grim world here in America. America will never be able to improve again. It's going downhill from here.

明智的选择，先生，你说的是真话，美国是一个残酷的地方。美国永远无法再进步，开始走下坡路了。

12567NoYouCannot

HOW BEAUTIFUL those stations. WOW.   YOU CAN EAT on those floors!!!!!!!!!!!!

这些车站真漂亮，可以坐在地板上吃饭

BOT-ye6tj

The United States just announced a few days ago that it will spend $1.6 billion on online public opinion campaigns against China in the future. It can be foreseen that the future online public opinion will be like darkness before dawn for China. However, fortunately, there are countless people like you who respect facts, illuminating the contours of China like a lighthouse at night, avoiding unnecessary collisions and illuminating the path of welcoming friends. Wishing you a happy life, whether in China or in your distant hometown.

美国几天前刚刚宣布，未来将花费16亿美元在网上开展针对中国的舆论运动。可以预见，未来的网络舆论对中国来说将是黎明前的黑暗。

幸运的是，有无数像您这样尊重事实的人，像夜晚的灯塔一样，照亮了中国的轮廓，避免了不必要的碰撞，照亮了欢迎朋友的道路。

祝你生活幸福，无论是在中国还是在遥远的家乡。

SunnyMa-iv2xu

Even live in HK and Macau foreigners can apply the non-Chinese citizen permit card can go to China trip stay for 90 days.

即使居住在香港和澳门的外国人也可以申请非中国公民通行证，可以去中国旅行停留90天。

ubermenschen3636

US public school is a disaster. Drop-out rate is double digit; HS grads are barely literate; US HS grads score near the bottom on science and math subject. Graffiti, trash, drugs, crime, and homeless are everywhere — look no further than NYC, Oakland, Philly, Chicago, Detroit, LA, SF, Seattle, Miami, Camden, St Louis, Houston, Dallas, Albuquerque, ...

美国公立学校就是灾难。辍学率是两位数，高中毕业生几乎不识字，美国高中毕业生在科学和数学科目上的得分接近垫底。涂鸦、垃圾、毒品、犯罪和无家可归者无处不在——看看纽约、奥克兰、费城、芝加哥、底特律、洛杉矶、旧金山、西雅图、迈阿密、卡姆登、圣路易斯、休斯顿、达拉斯、阿尔伯克基……

ahkoy973

Been to China four times already recently... love the people, the food, infrastructure and more

最近去了中国四次了…喜欢那里的人、食物、基础设施等等

davidchung4691

You have made the wise choice for your family. Best wishes.

你为你的家庭做出了明智的选择，祝福。

pennygwynt350

And most importantly, no stench in the stations!

最重要的是，车站里没有恶臭

TWMan001

I have lived and studied in both places, and I can only say that seeing is believing. The Western world boasts unique strengths—freedom, creativity, and individuality are deeply ingrained in its culture. On the other hand, Confucian society in China emphasizes stability, balance, and community. To provide my child with a solid foundation in both languages and mathematics, I chose to have him complete middle school in China. Once he had developed a strong sense of personality and maturity, I sent him to the U.S. to pursue high school (starting in Grade 9~10) and university.

我在这两个地方都生活和学习过，我只能说眼见为实。西方世界拥有独特的优势——自由、创造力和个性在其文化中根深蒂固。另一方面，中国的儒家社会强调稳定、平衡和群体。

为了让我的孩子在语言和数学方面打下坚实的基础，我选择让他在中国完成中学学业。当他有了强烈的个性和成熟感后，我把他送到美国读高中(从9年级到10年级开始)和大学。

dlcc012david

U make the right decision

你的决定是对的

Monitor2023

I am your new subscriber from HK.   I would like to add one more point for the transport system in China.   That is very affordable to every person,  even it is running at a loss.   The government is willing to subsidize the loss of the metro,  hi speed  train etc.   Because it is one of the benefit for the people.   When you reach the age of 60,   you are free to use the metro in Shenzhen.

关于中国的交通系统，我想再补充一点。即使交通系统是亏损的，也让每个人都买得起票，政府愿意补贴地铁、高铁等的亏损。这是惠民之举。在深圳，当你年满60岁时，可以免费坐地铁。

Mooi-td6pl

You are absolutely spot on about raising kids. The environment they grow up in is utmost important.

关于养育孩子方面，你真是一针见血。他们成长的环境至关重要。

aryanhan506

Super duper clean……wish u success n happiness in China.

超级干净，祝你在中国成功、幸福。

gohsimon4347

You made a great decision brother    wish well never regret your kids will have better future   

你做了一个伟大的决定，兄弟，希望你永远不会后悔，你的孩子会有更好的未来

tuppenceworth5485

In the West, a new expensive car is liable to get scratched due to the envy culture.

在西方，由于嫉妒文化，一辆昂贵的新车很容易被刮伤。

jasonlee3508

I highly agree on this after hearing about Georgia shooting and personally live within the radius of the parkland school shooting.  Those pain doesn’t go away.

在听说乔治亚州枪击案后，我非常赞同你的选择，我就住在枪击案发生点帕克兰校区附近。那些创伤不会消失的。