Navneet：来看看我的童年照

I know 'Wen' will be excited to see the pictures sent by him posted here on my blog and I won't disappoint him but right now I can't uncompress the pictures sent by him. Let me post some pictures of little "Navneet". I was also a child once, before I bid "Adieu".

我知道Wen看到他发过来的图片被贴在我博文里会感到激动，我不会让他失望的，然而此刻我无法解压他发过来的图片。还是贴一些小“Navneet”的照片吧。其实，我曾经也是孩子。

Not so naughty....:) Myself, My elder and younger sisters with our younger brother in my sister's lap.

看起来不那么淘气....... :) 我自己，我姐姐和妹妹，我弟弟坐在姐姐的膝盖上。

以下是Navneet和读者的交流：

译文来源：三泰虎 http://www.santaihu.com/wen-brought-back-childhood-memories.html

Prasad Ganti

Navneetji, children are amazing. The sketches by your son are excellent ! Wen's dextrity is commendable. Childhood reminds me of Jagjit Singh "woh kaagaz ki kashti, woh baarish ka paani".

童年照太神奇了。你儿子画的素描非常棒！温的机敏值得称赞......
navneetkumarbakshi

Yes, Prasad Ji- We all have memories of childhood. While growing up our children show amazing abilities but our education system, our thinking is so conventional that nothing besides scoring good marks in the exams seems important to us. Our children in their desire to please us find themselves confused and floundering. That is one beautiful song by Jagjit Singh depicting thoughts of childhood.

是的，我们都保存着童年的记忆。长大后，我们的孩子表现出惊人的能力，但我们的教育体制太古板，我们的思维太传统，除了考试取得高分，其他一切不重要。我们的孩子渴望讨好我们，结果换来的是困惑.....

ashualec

Uncle, Your son seem to be a good painter. The drawings are amazing specially for his age when extra circular activities were not considered the in thing.

You still look the same haaa expression wise and i hope you play with your grand kids soon...:-)))))

大叔，看来你儿子像是个优秀画家。他这个年龄能有如此造诣的素描令人吃惊，特别是当时并不风行这些课外活动。

你仍然看起来一脸睿智，希望你能很快抱上孙子...... :-)
navneetkumarbakshi

Thanks Ashu,
All children exhibit some inclination, excel in one thing or the other but our response is " Tu pahale pad le phir ye sab karna" or Haan khleon mein hi mann lagata hai iska bas. These are very discouraging statements for the children par ham aise hi hain. ? Main to ab kaisa lagta hoon, tumhen kaise pata? Abhi recently to kafi budda lagane laga hoon. Ho bhi gaya hoon what to do :)

孩子都会表现出一些爱好，有这样或那样的擅长，然而我们的回应是........

对于孩子来说，这是非常令人沮丧的........

DSampath

I was totally unaware of my son and daughetr when they were growing up
whereas i am very aware of my grandson.

儿女成长时，我完全没意识到过，而我对孙子倒是呵护备至。
navneetkumarbakshi

Thanks Sampath Ji,
It's true of most of us. When our children are growing up, we are so busy chasing the targets that we don't even notice when they grow up and go away. Some of us get to live a few blessed moments with their grandchildren and relive those lost precious moments.

对我们大多数人来说，这是真的。孩子长大时，我们忙着追逐目标，全然没有意识到孩子在长大。不过，我们中的一些人能有幸和孙子一起享受那些逝去的宝贵时刻。

navneetkumarbakshi

Both our sons are computer professionals. I wanted them to go ahead and chase their dreams- they were so fond of computer games and animes .But they have found that the world of reality is so different from the world of the dreams- at least so far, when they are doing,computer work but yet not doing what they wanted to do - making computer games. I pray that someday they get to fulfil their dream.

我的两个儿子都是计算机专业人士。我希望他们追逐梦想，他们非常喜欢玩电脑游戏和日本动漫。然而，他们发现现实距离梦想很遥远。他们从事计算机工作，但不是从事他们喜欢的电脑游戏制作。我祈祷他们总有一天能实现梦想。

uni

Dear Navneet:

Glad to read your new blog and to know sth about your sons.

高兴地看到你的新博文和了解到你儿子的一些情况。
navneetkumarbakshi

Thanks Uni my friend. People like you inspire me to write more and better.

谢谢，正是你们在激励着我继续写下去。

lintianxn

Dear NAVNEET, I can understand your idea, the child's care and love that every parent should be the case. I just recently became a father, and now, whenever I see my son, I was so pleased and satisfied! Just as has the whole world! I will work hard to make money, so my children will have a better life and education, you know, this is not easy, and now China has a huge population of over 1.3 billion, and India, in general, a large population brought to China employment, health, education, infrastructure pressures, my generation peers, the vast majority of ordinary migrant workers, our income is not high. Nevertheless, I will accept this challenge, I will for my child and family work hard.

我理解得来你的想法，关心爱护孩子是为人父母的职责。我最近也当上了父亲。现在每当看到儿子，我就非常高兴和知足，好像拥有了整个世界！我会努力赚钱养家糊口，让孩子过上更美好的生活，享受更优质的教育。你知道的，这并不简单，中国拥有13亿之众的庞大人口，印度的人口也很多，给就业、医疗、教育和基础设施带来了巨大压力。我的同龄人，广大农民工的收入并不高。不管怎样，我会接受这一挑战的。为了孩子，为了家庭，我一定会努力工作的。
navneetkumarbakshi

Congratulations Lin for becoming a father. You are going through all the emotions a father goes through a lot more of those as he/she grows up. This is what this life is all about.
Navneet

恭喜你当上了父亲。随着孩子长大，你将会经历父亲将要体验的一切情感。这就是生活的真谛所在。